Your finger is skinny and more moveable than your you know what. You can stand or lay down or sit down or better, you can just lay over her and in between her and work your way. So it won't hurt her, rub her clit (the little small thing inside her) v just rub the hell out of it and make her wet so you can slide your finger or fingers in her. Just do it slow when you go in her, it shouldn't hurt. Make sure she's okay with it first.
Make sure you have lube on her and your hand, spit can work fine. Everything needs to be nice and slippery. A bit of penatration is good but for most women your main point of focus would be the clitoris. But don't dive right into the clit, it's good to warm her up a bit first with foreplay--kissing, stroking her skin, reaching closer and closer to the erogenous zones. Teasing is good.
I am a virgin and yes, when my boyfriend finger me and do it a little rough, it hurts. He tried one finger and 2 finger, yes 1 finger is better with a slow move.
One thing, her hymen could break if you finger it too hard and rough. Ofc that will hurt and make her bleed.
Insert your finger into her vaginal canal then use the streams of blood she loses as lube to continue pleasuring her as angels prance around behind her.
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Focus on her clit, let her get wet enough, then if she wants to, slowly put one finger inside her. Do not force it in, just go slowly or you'll hurt her. If she tells you to stop, stop immediately.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!Rube her at first and when she's ready you can finger her. Though, don't be too rough, don't go too deep. Finger are enough to touch the hymen.
I would suggest you to just rub her clit first and then when she gets wet maybe you can try finger her, but always see her reactions and ask her if it feels good, because sometimes it can be painful depending on her hymen.
However she responds to your touch. Gently.
I would ask her is you could
With your finger.
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