How so I subtly let him know I want sex?

I've been going out with this guy for a few weeks ago now and I really like him. I want to subtly tell him I want sex without actually telling him. What kind of sexy things can I do to hint to it?
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  • Ok I suggest you watch a movie or something and snuggle on the couch. After the movie is over, twirl your head back and initiate a kiss. This should hopefully lead to kissing back. From there show that you want to be slightly dominant. Get on top of him, and continue to kiss him. Maybe try to take his shirt off. At this point things will roll nsturally and hopefully he takes your shirt off... this should get things rolling in the right direction.

    • Another idea is that you can subtly ask him what he thinks about sex. Just pose it as a neutral question. Let him know that you've enjoy it and that you think it's fun. But don't ask him. Either he'll ask you to have aex, or he'll let it go but know that you're thinking about it and this will make him want to have sex with you in the future more likely

    • Shall I get my boobs out and shove them in his face?

    • Depending on the guy, that could be a little too strong. If you aren't wearing a bar and he takes your shirt off Then it doesn't matter, but if you have a bra on, let him get it off, or if he's not getting the memo, then take it off. But don't just shove it in his face.

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  • girl from the looks of ur profile picture alone, that should do the trick ;o.. and those 2 lumps of awesomeness are also not to be missed. so i'd say just rub them against him ;D!

    • So rub my boobs on him?

    • for example, your out walking or getting home from a date, take his arm pull it between ur boobies and go for a kiss. subtle hint ;D.

    • Shall I rub his dick as well?

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  • I think good clear communication is important. Be frank, open honest and sincere. Tell him all about your sexual fetishes, kinks, needs and wants. :)

  • Just cuddle up with him and let him take things from there.

    • I've tried that but I think he's too nervous

    • Offer to give him a massage. No guy can resist an erotic massage.

    • What and then massage his dick?

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  • Why cant' you just ask him if he'd like to fool around?

  • Why not just have a hot and steamy make out session, in a location where sex would be possible and see how it goes. It would ideally go to where you want it

  • invite him to your place

    • And what do I do once he's round?

    • Watch a movie, get closer, kiss him, go on top & you're almost there

  • Put your hand on his dick while making out (I'm being serious).

    • Shall I just lightly touch it or properly grab it?

    • Lightly touching it is enough.

    • Shall I do it over the clothes or shove my hand down his pants?

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  • you subtly suck his dick

  • Kiss him/make out with him lustily, and put his hands on you. That's a pretty clear signal.

    • Shall I touch him anywhere in particular?

  • start joking and tickling him.

  • passionately kiss him... touch him when you two are alone. That will do I guess.

    • Where do I touch him?

    • his hands... may be his chest... I don't know wherever you feel confident.

  • You don't. You be blunt. Guys don't like subtlety.

  • why not take him to your place and initiate sex.

    • What do you mean initiate sex, like what do I do?

    • put your hand on his dick.

  • That's easy rub him through his pants.

    • Get him hard and he is yours!

    • So what do I do after he gets hard?

    • want me to do you !

  • Umm, you don't exactly tell them, you just show up with some sexy lingire on and that usually gets the point across

  • Well with guys you dont want to be too subtle (cuz sometimes we dont notice jackshit) but not too direct neither (not to give the wrong imression) Subtly present your body to him

    • By doing what?

    • lightly touch him lightly with your boobs, staying close (not annoyangly close tho) or maybe just say smth sexual kinda jokingly maybe wear smth a bit revealing when ur alone with him. Its pretty easy to get a guy to that point but u gotta make it physicaly clear. As i said most guys are oblivious to moves that are too subtle. He may get the idea that ur pointing to sex but he may be unsure and he may dissmis the idea to avoid making a embarasing or awkward sutuation (thats just how i precieve it atleast)

    • What if I invite him round my house and answer the door only wearing a bra?

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  • Put a sign on your chest that reads: "fuck me".

  • you can easily give him while making out

    • *give him signal

    • By doing what?

    • you are making out, he kisses you on the neck, you guide his head downwards, now he is kissing you there (or tickling, sucking) one thing leads to another and bang sex happened.

  • cook food

  • Why can't You tell him?

  • kiss him than his neck. lick his ear. he'll get in real fast lol

  • does he even try to kiss you?

    • Yeah he kiss a lot

    • tell him you want to do it with him when he starts kissing

  • wear something sexy
    ask him what kind of things he wants
    just start foreplay and see where he takes it

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