Guys, How soon after masturbating can you have sex?

I guess I am talking about refractory period or when you are able to orgasm again after masturbating. Im always curious about these things.

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  • Masturbating is like a chinese meal - it leaves you hungry. Not that long really compared with vaginal sex.

    I think it is more to do with how sexually satisfied you feel after ejaculation rather than the supposed need to fill up the sperm tank. I wouldn't be surprised that that is an unsupported supposition.

    I do know I can carry on fucking after ejaculating if I am really excited by the girl and ejaculate a second time.
    So I have disproved this sperm tank refractory period to my satisfaction.

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  • oh it depends! I guess I’m lucky in the sense that my refractory period is shorter as compared to the average. I tend to masturbate more than once per sitting - so about 2-3 orgasms in a 45 minute window.

    The fastest time between orgasms was slightly under 10 minutes.

    If I know im about to engage in sexual activity that day (sex or oral sex), I will refrain from masturbating that entire day to “build up” that desire for a pleasurable release. I tend to go for second and third rounds of sex, but I don’t like to jump right into in. I prefer some cuddling and foreplay to build up the excitement again. But based on the refractory period I experience during masturbation, I’ll expect it to be somewhere between 10 to 15 minutes (minimum).

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  • Teenage boys can have a refractory period of a few minutes; a 30-year-old man is typically unable to have a second orgasm for half an hour or more; and for many men 50 years and older, one orgasm per day may be all they can achieve."
    I'm 40... so that means i'm useless...🤣🤣

  • Once I have an orgasm, my refractory period takes about 10 minutes. After that, if a girl sucks me I can become aroused and ready for sex again pretty quickly. Without oral, it would take longer for me to become aroused enough to have sex.

  • Hmm. I've been know to go again pretty much straight away. Depends how horny I am or how turned on she makes me.

  • Right afterwards. Jerking off gets the job done and the cum out but nothing like sex. A warm mouth wrapped around my dick will get it right back hard an especially if I'm getting my balls sucked. I'll be rock solid way before I even get in the pussy

  • As soon I get another erection. There was this cowgirl that hopped on and rode so hard and fast... a close tight grind that caused me to cum quickly. She smiled and kept the same pace... it grew back quick. Was a lot less sensitive this time. Things became interesting.

  • Probably 2/3 of these answers are lies. I'm older now, it would take me an hour or so

    • I was waiting for your answer… I had a feeling some of these guys weren’t being honest because I know sex/masturbation takes a lot out of guys and they need to recharge.

    • Feel free to message me. I'll answer any question you have

  • an hour or so.

  • depends on how horny I am, how backed up I am and how much my partner is willing to help get me ready. but average recovery time would be about 15-20 mins. although each round could last roughly 15 mins to an hour or more depending on factors I've listed.

  • it varies from seconds to minutes

  • The refractory period will vary from guy to guy, by age, by the intensity of the gal he is with, etc.

    There are a ways to "bypass" some of the arousal phase (and get to orgasm more quickly) but that's a whole different topic for another day.

    • Interested in your 'bypasses' so please share! One experience convinced me I had more capability than I thought. I was having sex with a Burmese girl. She had a great body and I was very much enjoying it. So I had a big ejaculation and after that I rolled off her feeling very satisfied indeed. I was so satisfied I was softening rapidly. The girl took a tissue and kindly removed the condom for me which I thought nice of her. Then she took the head of my penis in her left hand and sort of stretched it out a little. With her right hand she massaged the base of my penis with firm pressure from just one finger. Within a minute I was back to full rigidity and inside her with a fresh condom on! And very impressed she knew more about my penis then I did.

    • @RavVid She has already found the way to bypass the A phase, if she really did THAT!

    • Sorry do you mean the asker or the Burmese girl I mentioned?

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