How soon is too soon to sleep with someone?

I'm 27. I've been single for about 2 years and the last time I had sex was a year ago. I've since met a lovely, charming guy who's been the perfect gentlman. I've been seeing him for about a month. We've had on average 2 dates per week. I believe in going with the flow and doing what feels right but when is the right time to sleep with someone? Does the number of dates you've had matter or does the amount of time you've known each other matter more?
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In answer to a couple of your questions, obviously a year of not having sex means I'm a bit out of practice. I know when I was younger, I had sex with boyfriends very quickly, like within the first couple of weeks but more recent boyfriends I've waited two or three months. I do fancy him, that's not the question here. I could never sleep with someone I don't fancy! The dilemma is that I want sex so bad but I don't to rush into it just to satiate a lustful need.
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  • Sounds like now is about right but it depends if your ready and comfortable with him at this point to take it to the next level

  • 30 seconds.

  • Time spent together and how close you got. Isn't this just up to the two of you though? He is obviously interested past any notion of hit-it-and-quit-it. I would assume you are too.

    You wouldn't be too soon at all now and certainly exempt from any cheap or easy notions that may or may not exist in his head. But take it at whatever pace you feel comfortable with.