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How submissive are you sexually?

During sex, many women love being dominated by a powerful male. They like being grasped, pinned, bent, positioned, moved around, lifted, pounded, and physically challenged. Some like rougher stuff like being choked, forced, having their hair pulled and ass slapped. Some enjoy DP. Some enjoy bondage.

I think women find the helplessness/vulnerability thrilling and the intensity challenging, as long as it's consensual and they trust their partner not to harm them. Being able to take whatever their man dishes out makes them feel empowered.

The nature of sex is, men are the aggressors. They do the penetrating, thrusting and churning inside a woman's body. Women, on the other hand, are smaller and weaker. They offer themselves up, wait in anticipation for what's to come, and submit to being ravished. Their bodies get penetrated/invaded, and their role is to take it once the man is in control. They like the idea of being used. Even a certain amount of pain can feel fulfilling. It's like an intense thrill ride.

I'm not implying that women are passive. They fully participate. They actively seek orgasmic pleasure but also get turned on by driving their man wild.

Anyway, so knowing that everyone is different, this is kind of a poll to get various women's views or preferences. I expect a wide range of answers.

Do you enjoy the submissive role?
What is your idea of submission? Please describe or give examples.
Why do you love being dominated by a man? Why does it get you off?
Describe the kind of extreme sexual experiences that you love. Or describe your extreme fantasies. What DO you like or what WOULD you like to have done to you? Are you a freak?
Do you prefer tender, loving sex or do you like being used?

Write an essay about your thoughts/desires. Feel free to criticize my POV.
And, as always you're welcome to answer anonymously if you wish.

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Most Helpful Girls

  • That bar gets moved around a lot. Depends on the mood. You both don’t always want to do the same things, aren’t always feeling the same way. When you are with someone a long time you’ve pretty much tried almost everything you are each comfy trying at one point or another. Some get added to the favourites lists. Others just get added to the “remember when” list cause it was fun, but been there done that and over it.

    • Sounds great. I get it. So in what ways are you more dominant or in control? How is a woman dominant unless she is on top?

    • Oh, you need to think outside the box. One example. If it's decided, first, that their every move is made your decision and guidance before they make it, positions don’t hinder control.

    • I see. Thanks. :-)

  • I tell men how to eat n fuck me. But also love being their slut too. To me it's knowing he wants me so bad n if I'm a good girl n give him my pussy I'm really in control. Disrespect makes me cum. Being slapped while getting ate out makes me squirt. I just like feeling a slut.

Most Helpful Guys

  • I agree with this. I think there’s some human nature to this due to our body parts and how we have sex. I am mostly the dominant one.

    there are times I like roleplay and switching it up. My girlfriend can get aggressive so when she’s in the mood I let her take on a dominant role… usually ends up with her riding me

  • Mostly dominant but at times like to be passive giving unhindered freedom and opportunity to girl so that she materialise her kinks and fantasies.

    • Absolutely. It's nice when she's in the mood to have her way with you.

    • Thanks for MHO.

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  • Depends on the person..

  • What we each like definitely depends on the mood that evening. I don’t like anything too rough, but some groping and behind slapping can be enjoyable.

    Different levels of “dirty” talk will often come into play as well

  • "I think women find the helplessness/vulnerability thrilling and the intensity challenging, as long as it's consensual and they trust their partner not to harm them. Being able to take whatever their man dishes out makes them feel empowered. "

    This is pretty much a spot on take. I don't think I could have said it any better, lol.

    • You think so? I appreciate that, msfuntastic. :-)

    • very true

    • Thanks, msfuntastic. Very cool. :-)

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  • Absolutly most of the time I think its like a protector instinct a guy that can dominate you can protect you too

    • Does being in the sexually submissive role turn you on? Does his dominance turn you on? Or some of both?

    • Yes and yes

  • Only sometimes. I'm pretty much a 50/50 switch

    • So you like to have your way with him half the time? Woo Hoo!!!

    • Yess 🖤

  • My wife and I take turns being the dominant one. Keeps things fun!

    • That works. :-)

  • I demand to be fully equal and both to be neither submissive or dominating. I am also big on asking permission to do anything.

  • I’m not submissive. I’m not abusive either, but she goes where I lead and enjoys it being that way.

  • Very submissive and very sensual

    • I love romance and passion

    • I like to be tied up, spankings, deep thrusting

    • I want a BWC in me now 😩 ..

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  • It depends on how I’m feeling. I love both roles but I’m mostly submissive because I like rough sex. I was dominate once and it was really hot and I would definitely do it again.

  • I do not consider myself submissive but I do not do choking or spankings.

  • I'm a switch, I like being in control and often I am but don't mind being submissive every once in a while.

    • What does being in control look like? I mean, it what ways are you in control?

    • @lliamIn cowgirl you control the pace, you can completely strap him to the bed and control everything he feels, when, etc. You can tell him what to do, what position to do next, sit on his face nothing more dominant than that in my opinion. Choking works too, milk him, ... the list goes on.

    • I get it. I like that a lot, too. :-) That's why cowgirl is my second favorite position after doggy-style. :-)

  • Subwhat? I do not know this word of which you speak.

    • Please explain. As far as I'm concerned, it's a submissive act merely for a woman to spread her legs or bend over to offer her pussy.

    • Ummm…I’m not a woman. There is consideration…there is no submission in me. Not after what I’ve been through.

  • You invited me to share an opinion on this question but it seems like you're only directing your questions towards women

    • I just clicked "select all". Guys can submit their thoughts.

  • I can be very submissive.

    • Good girl

  • I could probably do both

  • On a scale between 1-10, zero.

  • tie me up and use me

    • That's so hot, AustColombiangirl. 😛🙂 What are your limits? And, aside from the physical sensations, why do you find it erotic to be manhandled, ravished and used hard? I'm interested in girl's perspective on being smaller, weaker, softer and more vulnerable.

    • i've been used that hard i couldn't walk afterwards

    • That's so freaking hot. You're a woman of value, austcolombiangirl.

  • I don't know i think id be very submissive but im not sure honestly

    • why do you think that

  • No experience, but I can tell it’s going to take awhile for me to get used to the idea of being dominant. I’m shy and gentle, and would probably be asking things like “are you sure?” a lot at first.

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