How to ask boyfriend to take an std test?

We've been together a really long time... but I sorta feel comfortable with us testing at least once a year. But I have no idea how to ask him to test... and the reason even though we're together I wanna ask is he's had an std once when with me. So I get worries at times. But have no idea how to ask him kf he could test

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Superb Opinion

  • Understand if you ask him to take a test, you are accusing him of cheating. If there's history, or your relationship is open then I can see it, otherwise it's a fight.

    • He's cheated before and got an std

Most Helpful Guy

  • Do you think he’s having sex with other people regularly? If you do, sure, otherwise it’s irrelevant to take them. Maybe one time just to make sure you both are clean from other relationships but after that, there’s not need.

    • It's possible he is... he's cheated before and gotten an std... so that's why

    • Oh ok, but then you have a trust problem with him. That’s what you should address.

Most Helpful Girls

  • You clearly have no trust in him so why stay with him especially if he has cheated on you.

    • I do have trust. It's more I just feel more comfortable if we take test... even me take them as well as him. It just makes me feel better so neither of us has doubts. And know we're clean

    • Wanting to do std test every year sorry that is not someone who trust the person

  • You could just tell him or make him wear condoms.. problem solved..

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • He was unfaithful to you earlier in your relationship?

    • Yes he was

    • Do you have any reason to suspect that you have an STD now?

    • I have had soreness and swelling along with some signs I saw on Google for stds. But it coukd also be a uti

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  • Girl you seriously need to raise your standards, that's just sad.

  • Agree to get STD check together within the same month or week

  • Have the two 9f you test together.

  • Are you both seeing and having sex with others?

    • He's cheated before. I have not. I've only ever had sex with him

    • Not trolling you, How do you know he cheated?

    • Because I've literally met the women he cheated with. And he admitted it after

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  • Point blank

  • Show him your results first

  • just be open.

  • Just buy a home testing kit and make him take it.