He’s already gone down on me (I’m super grateful and made it clear I’m good), and I tell him I want him to cum inside me. I actually eventually had to stop us because he was taking so long that I had to pee! He keeps telling me how into me he is throughout and I AM active, but he says he has endurance. I just want him to finish sooner though!
The difference between men and women , a woman has to concentrate to make herself cum/ Orgasm , a male has to concentrate not to cum , Most men want to please their girl , they want to make sure she finishes before he does , so men tend to practice edging basically masturbating just enough to where he is about to cum then holds it back , to make his dick not so sensitive, so he can last long enough to get her off , so he probably edged to many times to where it takes him longer to reach busting a nut , to some girls it’s a good thing to some girls it’s a bad thing , the moral of the story Women are never satisfied lol
Moral of the story is every partner is different. Thank you for the insight; I didn’t know about edging.
No problem , and I was only making a joke about the moral of the story part lol Yes everybody is different , so be thankful your boyfriend can last to please you , What most girls don’t realize is a male’s penis is connected to his brain , for him to get an erection his brain sends signals to his penis to make the blood flow to it when he is turned on , If he has any blockages it’s harder for him to keep an erection , sadly with all the shit that is injected into our food supply has been causing a lot of males to have problems , if he is suffering anxieties and depression or if he smokes and drinks alcohol those are all things that can play a huge effect on his penis , Most girls will assume he must not be attracted to me cuz why isn’t he getting hard and the Truth is it isn’t the girl what so ever , it’s something occurring inside him , I hate talking about my own personal experiences but if I can help someone out that is struggling , then hey I am happy to hear I helped someone else out Cuz most guys today are having issues , why these pharmaceutical companies are making a shit ton of money cuz a lot of Male’s are struggling , When I was younger I had no problems when I came to obtaining an erection for a girl and lasting but as I got older sadly I went through a time I was having trouble. , I was so embarrassed and sad as to what the fuck is happening to my dick , my ego was shattered o felt like a failure so I went to my doctor , embarrassed as shit to find out what was wrong , I was going through depression , losing my mom and my brother shortly after each other I couldn’t keep an erection for my girlfriend at the time , she was getting pissed off and thinking I was cheating on her , which made Matters worse cuz I wasn’t cheating on her , my doctor explained to me the whole process on how a penis works and I was blown away lol A lot of it is due to what is going on in our brains , or what foods we are eating and if we drink alcohol or smoke
They are all causes of a penis not working properly , A female should never assume she is the reason first , Most men aren’t going to get with a girl that he isn’t attracted to , or doesn’t want to fuck , so many men are experiencing erectile Disfunction these days and sadly it can occur at any age , Why so many guys are doing what they can to prevent that from happening , Your boyfriend is probably edging to stop that from happening to him , to make sure he lasts with you in bed , so all in all a girl should support her man no matter what he is experiencing instead of just assuming the worst is all I am saying cuz it’s curable , As for your boyfriend tel him not to masturbate or edge much anymore that’s why he is losing his sensitivity
From what I heard, when a female gets the sensation of "I need to pee" whilst being sexually stimulated, that's when she's about to "squirt". I don't know how real that is, maybe you really needed to just go piss, but maybe that's the reward he was looking for? A literal golden shower...
I still don’t understand squirting and haven’t found good research on it…also reluctant to research too much because I don’t want to click on a bad link 😅like a virus. but I was convinced I had to pee because previous to sex my blood sugar was low so I had to have half a pop. I mean, you could be right. I just never experienced that with other partners.
Sometimes guys think they need to hold back and last longer to please the woman. Maybe explain to him the intercourse part is for him and you find it exciting if he just takes you and doesn’t hold back. You have to frame it that you’re turned on by that and not that you just want it over sooner. Male egos are fragile sometimes.
Thank you! I was hoping someone would tell me exactly what to say. I don't know why it won’t let me give MHO
Tell him your finished and want him to cum. Or just excuse yourself and pee. Communication during sex is more important than most types simply because it’s so intimate. So just tell him or make him cum.
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!He might be masturbating too much and has weakened his sensitivity.
Say: "Enough fucking already, just stop, and jerk off, for Christ's sake"
If that does't do it have him pull out and pour alcohol on his dick
LMAO
The problem is that he's probably circumcised, and he might masturbate too roughly. Women's vaginas give a very gentle stimulation, and men who aren't sensitive enough take a lot longer to finish. Circumcised men especially often grip too hard when they masturbate to have better stimulation. Too much of that desensitizes the penis for sex.
ehh... don't rush sex. You could try to extend the foreplay though.
That will make him hornier to cum.
May be jacking off to much. I had the same issue. When I first started dating my girl and would last 45 plus minutes which was to long for her. Also see if he has any kinks for dirty talk. If he does u cam probably use thst to turn him in more and make him cum faster
I would imagine that there are women out there that would hope to have your problem.
If your boyfriend has himself “callused” to the point of not feeling anything. Then you would need to get him closer to finishing before penetration.
Communication! Do it! I myself can last as long as she needs. I'd have to pump harder and faster to cum.
Maybe start him first and give him some head to start
More excitement then
Like try some louder noise and touches also ask him ( not just ride but also use finger in various ways or going harder!)
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