How to ask "the question"?

Misfitsmitty Xper 1

Am 66 & still don't know how to word the question, do you want to have sex?

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Smashingdoozy Guru
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Depends... If you've talked to this person for a while and are comfortable with them, maybe you've been on a few dates. You could ask her if she would like to go to the next level and perhaps spend the night with you.

If you are thinking of a one night stand, there's kind of a couple ways to go about it, you could be totally honest and tell them that you are just looking for a one night stand, or you could take them on a date and towards the end ask if they'd like to come back to yours. This generally insinuates that you want to have sex with them.

If you don't think they're getting the message then just be honest.
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purplepoppy Master
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Try "the viagra is starting to work, quick before it's too late"
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jakerson181 Yoda
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Use whatever your nationality is, say Italian as an example and ask her if she has any Italian in her. If she says no, ask her if she'd like some.
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- SueShe
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  I see you are good at reading other people's answers :-)
  
  What's the worst pickup line you've ever heard? ↗
- jakerson181
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  @SueShe This may come as a shock to you but this joke has been around since before you were born.
- SueShe
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  This may come as a shock to you but the asker is not asking for jokes or lame pick up lines that are as old as the pornography industry... But thanks for reminding me that you guys are only interested in one single thing in life!
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- jakerson181
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  @SueShe Unless my answer violates some website policy, can you explain why you believe it's your place to evaluate and critique them? And complaining that guys are talking about sex in the sexuality section is like going into a steakhouse and complainng that people aren't ordering enough vegan dishes which I'm sure you do as well. Constantly haranguing people for wanting to have a healthy sex life doesn't make you look morally superior. It just makes you look sad.
- SueShe
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  I would have thought that you had a few gray cells to tell the asker something useful and not just a lame joke from sexist, macho guys that sexualize and objectify girls for the sole purpose to have a few spasms and muscular contractions. Thanks for confirming the fact that indeed you guys only see an object in a girl and not a human being.
- jakerson181
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  @SueShe Well I never ask if they want to have sex. I just grab them by the hair and drag them back to my cave cause that's what us guys do, but I'm sure you already knew that. First of all, there was zero background information. Is it someone he's been dating a while, someone he just met, something he wants to have in his pocket to know if he meets a stranger in a bar? If they've been having a relationship, have they done anything so far, kissed, fooled around a little etc? No one could give him a real answer with so little information because the answer depends on the situation and the context. And you rarely ask the question that directly. But if I had said, ask her if she wants to head back to your place or wants to come up for a drink or whatever, you no doubt would have labeled that as cheesy pickup lines as old as time as well. You fundamentally are offended by people's desire to have sex even though it's perfectly normal, so no answer could ever be a good one with you. And you can drone on about you guys only want this or only want that but guess what, most women enjoy sex just as much as men do. It's intimacy and pleasure. It's ridiculous to characterize that as only the desire of one gender and not both.
- jakerson181
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  @SueShe And instead of haranguing me, why didn't you try to answer his question yourself? My answer may not be terribly helpful but is your giving me crap about it instead of trying to answer his question any better? any more helpful? Lastly, you can continue to troll the Sexuality section day after day like a diabetic in a candy store giving people a hard time but if you really want to do something productive with your time, how about focusing on the incredible amount of racism, xenophobia and sexism that goes on in some of the other sections. There must be 3 or 4 questions every single day asking if feminists should be burned at the stake. This website is a shitshow with some of the most vile, nasty, racist people I've encountered on social media. The Klan would probably tell some of the people on here they need to calm down a bit. How about focusing your attention on that?
AustinMan Influencer
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How about a follow for another senior so we can DM.
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