Guys, How to ask your boyfriend to give you oral sex?

He's only done it once and it was only like ten seconds in my past relationships I've been given oral sex many times. I like it if the guy does it right plus its really the only way I can have a orgasm. I want him to want to, so that's why I don't want to just flat out ask. I've given him oral many times and I'd like the favor returned if it ain't to much trouble.
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  • He may feel like a beginner and may not want to appear as such. Have you told him you really enjoy it? Have you told him how you like to have it done? He needs to know it is something you desire. He may find this conversation a bit awkward. Take the time to talk to him the first couple times and let him know what he is doing is awesome. Build his confidence. Show him with your body language and vocals how much you enjoy it. Be true. He will find out he enjoys it, too. Then you two can begin enjoying doing the 69 oral sex thing together. It is a process.

  • First of all, if he is an "Ass Guy", you are in luck. It will be easy... just give him a little dance, and sit on his face. Don't be shy about it. Put those beautiful pouty southern-most lips of yours to good use.

    Trust me, he'll get the message. If he's any good with his tongue, you won't even be able to remember what a dick feel like... it's that good (or so my wife tells me).

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  • Just climb on top of him in a 69 position. That's not a subtle hint.

  • you just have to flat out tell him what you want, but if its not his thing than i feel really sorry for you, personally thats the #1 thing i want to do to a girl, is lick her out to orgasm after squirting back arching, pillow grabbing orgasm.

  • As awful as it will sound, maybe he noticed an odor and was really turned off. It happens. Ask him if you smell down there, see what he says.

  • During foreplay gently push him down and navigate him to the right place. If he will get back or he doesn't let you push him, talk to him is the only option.

    • I love foreplay but he doesn't really I mean he will kiss my stomach some and inner thighs suck my breasts some but like I mean that may last 5 min maybe its just boring he's good as a boyfriend but in bed i feel like I'm the one that does everything if he won't make me cum least he could do is give me foreplay to get me hot and ready I just get bored going straight into sex. I don't want to be selfish but I mean I need attention to is that to much to want?

    • In relationship all aspects must be working in order. Otherwise it won't just work. Talk to him. Based on what you said, I think he is using you as kind of f*ck toy. He's the macho man, he's deserve all attention and orgasm. Or maybe it's just lack of experience. But it's wrong anyway. If he's so good as boyfriend, he shouldn't be offended if you tell him your complaints.

    • I mean he apologizes when he feels I'm not happy afterwards I think he just doesn't have a lot of experience for a few reasons he doesn't last long but getting better and he doesn't rest know what makes a girl just get all in a tisy he doesn't really even ask I just know because he's like what you wanna do baby and that tells me enough so I think I'm going to back off on being so giving and let him start asking me and I'm gonna just explain to him what I want and like. I just don't like having conversations like that. But might as well start cause im bout just don't even wanna do it anymore

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  • Perhaps ask him to 69 so you both get some head at the same time.

  • I he can't wait to get down there, then he either doesn't like it or doesn't know how. Watch some porn with him that concentrates on that. If he doesn't like it, then that's the problem.

    • I don't like porn but like he doesn't hardly go down in that area at all I mean he's a boob guy if you get what I mean lol he rather be up top but somtimes he will kiss my inner thighs but that's it and its like dang really your down there would it kill you to do more than that lol

    • I go nuts if I can't eat, so I can't relate, but I know some guys don't like to go down. You're just going to have to tell him what you want, and then decide if you can go the rest of your life without if he says no.

    • If he's a "boob guy" and he doesn't like it down there, he can't expect you'll be doing this favor for him. Because you unlikely reach orgasm different way, it could be matter of time for your break up.

  • You might have to be as bold as just sitting across from him naked with your legs spread as an unspoken invitation. But then, I don't need as big of a hint at he apparently does. Good luck!

  • 69 position

  • as others have said.. next time your giving him head move into the 69 position..

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