How to ask your partner to try anal sex?

First up. My partner asked me a while ago to try it but we got interrupted and didn't happen. I'd like to try approach it and try as it's been something I have been curious about

She has done it before. I haven't.

So... Do I just play and tease her to turn her on and ask when in the moment or is it something I should give a heads up on?

How would you word it, or like it worded if your partner was asking you?

Any advice is appreciated

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  • If I were you I would talk to her in advance. She may appreciate the opportunity to mentally prepare, if not physically. It shouldn't be a big deal since you know she has done it in the past and has already asked you to do it with her once. You could just say something like "hey, a while back you mentioned wanting to try anal but we weren't able to do it then... you still interested in giving it a go?".

    There is no need to wear a condom, as someone else suggested. It's true there are a lot of bacteria in there, but when you cum it will push anything out that may have gotten into your urethra, and peeing right afterward helps too. I've had anal sex with my girlfriend countless times, have never worn a condom and never had any issues. Condoms are a good idea if you are not in a monogamous relationship and are not certain of your partner's health status, but not necessary otherwise. The inside of a woman's ass is luxuriously smooth and it seems a shame to have any barrier that doesn't allow you to fully enjoy it.

Most Helpful Guy

  • Bring it up to her ! She will prob. Love the fact you remembered she asked! My girlfriend asked me the same. We talked about it and gave it a try. We experimented and realized we liked it!

Most Helpful Girl

  • You dont want anal sex to be spontaneous. Both of you should discuss it beforehand. Also wear a condom. The anus is a bacterial nightmare and you could get an infection.

    • I don't mean spontaneous and just slam it in.. more in the moment. Maybe after a good satisfying oral session on her while teasing the rear to warm up before rolling over and covering her with lube? Thoughts?

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • "You asked me if... Are you still interested?"

  • easy. next time you are doing her doggystyle lick your thumb and play with her asshole until you get it inside. then slip your dick in

  • Better asking she’s ok with it. Lots Of women won’t do anal.

    • As I said in my first comment, she actually asked me first a while ago to try. She has said she enjoys it

  • Most women don’t like that

    • Don't like what? Did you even read my post. She likes it. She asked for it once and has said on other occasions she likes it... Just hasn't been the right moment to ask... And unsure how to bring it up

  • Ask if she wants to try it again

  • If you know partner is into anal sex, then I wouldn't even bother asking... Just go for it when you feel the urge!

  • Convince your partner, use sufficient lube, penetrate slowly, and keep getting reaction, if ok , then continue otherwise stop

  • I have been enjoying that since I was 16.

    • Do you prefer your partner to ask, ok with just initiating in the moment or prefer to be given a bit of notice to prepare