How to be good on top?

So I lost my virginity to the guy that I am with now, and every time I go on top during sex I just feel so.. inexperienced? I wanna be better than what he's had before so would appreciate any tips from guys and girls.. thanks!
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Most Helpful Girl

  • In a similar position, I tend to feel somewhat awkward and self conscious when I'm in cowgirl. Honestly, in general, I do a lot of hip movement and grinding because it's what feels good for me, although that doesn't get him off. I feel like cowgirl is mostly him enjoying the feel and the sensations, because for him to come while I'm in cowgirl, it generally requires a much faster speed of moving up and down on his penis which is quite tiring for me. So personally I see cowgirl as a position that lets him sit back and drink in the view. Thus, focus on your pleasure, because if you feel sexy you'll look more confident and sexy and that's what he'll appreciate seeing. Play with yourself, it'll turn him on.

Most Helpful Guys

  • 1. Bobbing up and down is not necessary. It's tiring and inexact. Rise up too far and he can enter you anally by accident on the way down or bend and pop in painfully for both.
    2. Once plugged in, you need only thrust fore and aft, mixing in random zig zag and "hula" hip motions.
    3. He can grip your hips and assist your motions and speed, getting him there better and less tiring for you.
    4. Either you or he has easy access to your clit (his hands on the fronts of your hips, thumbs cradling it) improving the possibility of you having an orgasm.
    5. Both of you (but especially you) can provide visual aid, sex faces, body rubbing and boobs swaying that help both reach the finish.

    • Wondering the reason a girl down voted me. Hmmm.

    • I thought it was good advice 🤔

    • My SO and Iike it a lot. There's also eye contact and hand holding like dancing and sex at the same time.

  • He probably knows you are inexperianced so it won't be a problem if you kinda ask him

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • do you know horse riding or have you ever ride bicycle on mountain?

  • Its all on the hipps with a front and forward movememt

  • learn to grip the dick in pussy thats most.

  • Training is the key... just keep on doing what you both like and it should get better

  • Don't break his dick.