How to be great in bed?

[Anonymous]

Ways to spice things up? Foreplay tips? Man I’m just worried that his ex was a goddess in bed and I’m just erm... average...
I’m open to all kinds of ideas! :)

[Anonymous]

One thing that my ex did was she would ware 1 of a few outfits like 3 that if she was wearing them it ment she wanted me so when I'd come home and she was in her dress I'd put her on the kitchen counter or tickle and wrestle her to the ground... I don't think she ever told me that these are the cloths I wear when I want sex but I think she did mention not wearing underwear in each of them on more than 1 ocassion... I also liked when she'd intiate she would kiss me and rub my dick through my pants... If you really want to mess with him tell him that tomorrow the rule is I can take off your clothes and you can take off mine but we can't take off our own. My ex did this and would not take off my pants after an hour of foreplay I was humping her with my pants on I bit her neck and she wrapped her leggs around me I cheated she said I owed her for cheating... Just have fun do stupid stuff

[iimJay]

Every couple should have a weird exploration night. Lick a shoulder, tickle some feet, see how comfortable you are with oral, try some weird positions out. You're bound to find something that makes you go "wow, I liked that". Communicate when things feel particularly good or bad.

Don't just be like "uhmm. So what's your favorite position?"
It's not gonna be the same with every partner. There isn't a real good answer for it.

Couple things I've enjoyed is when I sit upright and she grinds my leg while we make out. Getting a shoulder rub with her chest pressed into my back. Having her sit in my lap on the bed, I'm wrapped around her using my hands everywhere, kissing the neck, she's reaching back and pulling me closer every time it feels good. Do grab my ass, don't fucking touch my ears or my nose.

Just find out what works.

[Cherokeehp]

Enthusiasm is key. As long as you look like you’re excited to be there I don’t think it matters much what you actually do.

[AustinMan]

I bet you're not average. This might best be taken offline. Follow me if you'd like so you can be more candid.

One sure way to find at least part of your sexual bliss is in your fantasies. What are some of yours?

[OlderAndWiser]

Be eager, be willing, express yourself when you are aroused, and tell him how good it feels.

[LiyaArgent]

do not wait to be in the bed...