How to be less reactive during sex?

Recently my partner and I were together and we were recalling the past sexual events. He started making a few jokes about my eyes rolling or the way I shake, and about some of the moans that escape my lips. He didn’t intend to hurt my feelings, but I feel a bit silly now. I know nobody wants a limp quiet body during sex, but how can I tame it down to be quiet and not shake/eye roll. Thank you!
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  • Good god, woman, don't mess with success! That's like saying "I made some desserts, and they were just too delicious. How can I make them taste worse?"

    Those reactions are the diamonds and gold that guys are working hard for. If he's criticizing you for that, he's an idiot!

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  • Agree with everyone here. Don’t change anything. Enjoy it. He’s proud being able to give you these kinds of reactions.
    please just enjoy it. Change nothing.

Most Helpful Girl

  • That’s horrible. Don’t tame anything. You’re literally being yourself. If he has a problem with it, that’s too bad


    He shouldn’t tease you that way though. Teasing is supposed to be fun for both people involved

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  • That’s stupid bc I enjoy those reactions

    • So don’t try to tone it down just because he was teasing?

    • Don’t tone nothing down. He’s a shitty person for teasing you about that.

    • He’s super sweet, he was just teasing because he knows I’m shy. Even tho he’s seen my entire body during sex I still get shy when he sees me naked when I change my clothes.

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  • Be yourself, you're going to ruin your pleasure by trying to appease him

  • Ugh. Just get over it and enjoy the sex. No one is at their finest when they're getting fucked.

  • He was just being honest and I don't think he feels your body went limp. But mention how he reacts during sex and what his body does.

  • Nobody wants a dead fish OR a phony act.

  • It probably turns him on when you do that. Embrace it.

  • I wouldn’t even worry about it. Just be wild and enjoy the sex.

  • Do not calm down.. what you are doing is a major turn on for most guys.

  • Don't you dare try to tame down your natural reactions! Those reactions are some of the most thrilling parts of the sexual experience for a guy!

  • Please try not to change anything

    • Involuntary responses are best

    • It just happens, right? Try not to control or modify.

    • Isn't that is what called being able to be vulnerable

  • That's more hot to see girl like that, you shouldn't shy about it..

  • Lol... he might have been teasing, but he was really bragging. You're supposed to talk him up at times like that. If you were talking about his reactions while giving him head, would you want him to get self-conscious and withdraw, or talk up how good you are at it?