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How to be playful in bed?

Apparently I have a problem because I don't know how to be playful. I don't want to eat cum (I can barely spit without gagging) or lick my own squirt. I did lose vitginity only a couple months ago and we see each other in person every month for a week so I fon't have much experience. What are some things I could be doing?
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  • Mix in some card games/role playing fantasies. We have particular set of cards that lets you build your fantasy/steps to intercourse. Good times!

    • Thats a really cool idea!

    • It allows you to explore each other slowly, teaches patience ( which prevents you from diving right into sex ), helps each participant to develop foreplay skills😊

    • Gaining foreplay skills would be great, thanks

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  • Let him tie you up

    • Good suggestion

    • It's awesome It can be great if he can bring some ice cream into the play after having you tied up lolol

    • I won't know if I like it unless we try, right XD

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  • Just take it slow and have fun that is what counts. Are you enjoying the sex so far?

    • The first few penetrations are always painfull even tho I'm wet. But l'm enjoying doing it, feels good. I just can't relax enough during to reach orgasm, but I enjoy it without that perfectly fine.

  • Roleplay.

    • Great idea, I'll look into that

    • Me personally I’m into the schoolgirl.. I’ve Always like the idea wear regular panties.

    • I would like to play a school girl, sounds hot

  • be natural, enjoy sex thats most.

  • Lick your own squirt? Why I'd make him lick his own cum!

    Best way this girl has found is to talk sexy or dirty see what he likes and talk about it or ask for something!

    Maybe wiggle your hips some while he is inside you! Invite him to you when naked? Really guys love us touching and playing with our chest!

    • Yea, when I just found out I could squirt I told fim and after talking a little about it i said that this will be his mess to clean ; D like its my mess if he cums, he said that I'm gonna lick it, I said I won't lick my own squirt (also its made out of pee, the idea is nasty to me) and he said I don't wan't to play in bed. I think this perfectly ok to not lick your own bodily fluids

    • I should really learn how to dirty talk, great idea

    • How I'm so trying to pearn

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  • Have you asked him to make you cum with a vibrator? Have you tried reverse cowgirl? 69? Have you tried touching his butthole when you are giving him oral?

    • The first 2 two yes, he's very protective of his ass tho 😆. I could do reverse cowgirl more often

  • Be open to trying new things.

    • I don't know why thats kinda hard for me to do, but you're right that would be good

    • Then start off slowly at first and see how that goes.

    • I will, thanks

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