How to be sexy 101?

OK I see myself is more cute and adorable but sexy Comes off kind of awkward and I’m goofy
what are some tips and tricks? Buy a bunch of lingerie or do a meme makeover or more provocative clothes.
and remember goal is to be sexy not a whore.
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  • Wow, what is it with females and equating being sexy for being a whore? Having said that, if you're cute, then you're probably not going to be sexy. They are two very different things that rarely overlap. If you're cute, clothes won't cut it, you'll also have to try something with make up and/or mannerisms. Try a more mature make up to make you look less childish, for mannerisms, try being seductive instead of cute. As for clothing, I would need to see a full body picture of you to specifically know your body type, skin tone, and face. In general, I would suggest wearing something that makes you look sexy/compliments your body, not necessarily sexy itself (I've seen lingerie on woman look horrible because it clashed with their body instead of complimenting it...). Your best bet is to find an outfit that compliments your body type while also either complimenting or contrasting your skin and eyes, but not clashing with it. Also, find out what the guy want to impress likes and build off that.

    • Well we were taught that when we were younger we couldn’t wear red at a certain age because that’s too grown. And only sluts and whores show off their body those were the lessons when we were younger. Can’t help it if it’s stuck

    • I don't remember being taught that, I learned certain things form experience and observation... Actually you can help it if it stuck, you have a brain, think for yourself and ask why and how things mean what they do. That's what I did, I noticed that most people don't know that explanation when asked, so I researched and experimented and found out on my own. Just because an adult told you something when you were young, doesn't mean it's true nor that it's right or accurate. You're 26, get out in the world and experience things for yourself. It's similar to education, just because you've graduated/dropped out/finished, doesn't mean you have an excuse for not knowing things, I research things out of curiosity and continue to learn new things, skills, etc. today, despite having finished my degree back in August.

    • I’m talking about back then but now of course I have my own ideas about things.

  • First, "sexy" is not dressing or acting like a whore.

    A sexy woman is a FEMININE woman. Your innate femininity, dressing in a feminine way (even very modest dress) , SMILING, and showing interest in a guy, is extremely sexy.

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  • Sexy isn't a clothing, it's more a confidence in yourself, in your sexuality... True sexy can be sexy even wearing a potato sack...
    Find your true inner sex goddess and wear it proudly and it will show..
    Clothes tho, sometimes showing less is more, another way to be sexy without showing so much

    • fucking true

    • @ashish804 only took me getting old to get that lolol

    • who tells older isn't sexyyyyy.. its the matter of confidence 😉😉😉

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    - looking put together
    - eye contact
    - giggles

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  • I hear from many men that "sexiness" in women comes from confidence and owning their femininity. Being proud to have womanly features and show them off. "Being comfortable in your own skin" and all. If you wear lingerie and genuinely like how you look in it and can look in the mirror and say "Damn I look good!" then that's sexy and most men will appreciate it in you. And if you can't... Well you have a new goal to work on, then.

    For me, it's completely different. I am attracted to personality. A woman who is kind, loving, and compassionate becomes sexy in my eyes. Granted, I like curves, boobs, thighs, and all that good stuff, but that's "lust." Physically attraction and being tempted to have sex (or masturbate). Sexiness is something more powerful than lust.

    I also think showing genuine appreciation towards a man in your life and showing him how much you care (without it needing to be prompted) is also very sexy, too.

    Smiles also help a lot. Smiles are damn sexy! In fact, positivity and happiness in general is damn sexy. In my opinion, at least.

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  • I suppose that depends upon the guy. Me, for example, a sexy woman is any woman who isn't ashamed to show off her inner geek. For romantic relationships, I have to be attracted to her personally first.

    I might be an outlier, though.

  • Being sexy is something you have not something you wear.

  • Be proactive. Say what you want and how you want it. Show off or tease the guy uou want but not everyone around you. I. e. wear a shirt where if you lean forward only your guy will see down your shirt and no one else. But look at him like you are telling him you did thst on purpose for him.

  • Sexy and not a whore... Is a fine line... But let's go with James bond women, sexy yet respectable

    How to be sexy 101?How to be sexy 101?How to be sexy 101?How to be sexy 101?How to be sexy 101?
    • Hopefully that helps...

    • I like those

    • Thank you ☺️

  • "Sexy" is about attitude and vibe, not so much about what you're wearing or how your body looks. I've seen gals in short skirts and heels look totally uncomfortable and awkward, and I've seen gals in sweats and a t-shirt completely allure me.

    Embody that feminine energy of yours & you'll exude that charm and desirability you seek to have. The ladies of GaG can help you more with how to do this!

  • for women: get naked. lesson over.
    for men: just give up. not gonna happen. show her a picture of jason statham to turn her on.

    being sexy is being a whore basically. just "for one special person" instead of for everyone.

    • You have to do more than just get naked

    • Well just go through the male answers and see for yourself xD

  • Sexy Is being your self lol. 💞

  • I think lingerie would help. That is if you're going for the "sexier in the bedroom" route. That could get pricey so that's up to you.
    If you're going for the "Sexier in public" route, what I personally would find sexy is a passion toward something. Like say you're very passionate about social causes, or you're super into Dungeons and Dragons, make it known. Seeing the spark in someone's eyes when they get fired up is a good thing to see. This is all as far as personality goes.
    As far as physical appearance, that's also a tough one as it sort of goes along with personality.

  • Provacative clothes will help


  • "and remember goal is to be sexy not a whore.". Hmm. That's a tough one...

    Show 30% boobs instead of 40% boobs?
    Sorry; JK lol. I don't really know.

    • 🤣🤣 wrong but funny lolol

    • @Brainsbeforebeauty lol thanks

    • lol 😂

  • Being sexy is something that comes from within yourself. It's how you carry yourself, how you shake what the good Lord gave you. Also how you speak to people.

  • Yeah, I would say sexier clothes and make up will take you to sexy level. Good luck.

  • By sexy, yet modest clothing and act submmisive. Submmisivnesss makes women appear very sexy in my eyes.

  • Well a whore has to have sex with a lot of guys.

    • Yeah but sometimes even if you dress a certain way you get called a whore.

    • Because you dress like one, but you aren't one.

  • I NEED NOTHING TO MAKE ME SEXY, I WAS BORN SEXY.🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • Confidence is sexy

  • a photo would be helpful

  • Maybe a dress that shows a bit more skin lots of confidence in yourself and maybe a new look or the way you make your self up every day

  • I have no idea...

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