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How to be the perfect submissive?

I’m submissive in a relationship but I have never had submissive sex what are some tips to make me seem experienced
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  • I would think that the inexperience would help. He wants to take control and you want to let him, so let him teach you what he likes. I’m not really into the whole dom/sub stuff though so maybe I’m wrong.

  • Ask him what he wants you do to. That's all you can do

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  • If your partner is an experienced Dom, he should be aware of his role in helping you to find ways to educate yourself & guide you. If you're both new to this - I suggest you both start to look into what D/s dynamics are about and how they're kept safe for both parties sakes.

  • Erm
    you talk about it.

    they find out what excites you, gives you release.

    you find out what they like.

    A lot of sex is actually talking about it, doing it, then talking about what was good etc.

    Also depends on what type of sub you are

  • Not sure you need to be "trained" to be submissive, it's more an art.

    Seems you're not all you like to think you are, though.

  • Admit to your partner you’re a sub virgin. It will turn them on.

    • He’s new to this also so he wouldn’t understand these terms I had to explain it to him

    • I just want to seem experienced to teach him more about it

    • Hmm. That could be a problem. I guess you guys will have to fumble through it together. I’m not hardcore sub so I don't know.

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  • If I were him, I would enjoy training you to be submissive and to follow my rules rather than you appearing to be experienced

  • It's more about knowing what he likes so you'll automatically know what to do that really turns him on. He should already be telling you what he likes that's sexy so then it's easy for you to be sexy for him. If he doesn't know those things yet or isn't telling you, then experimenting different things in bed would be what I recommend. Ask him lots of questions and try to remember all the little details of what he likes.

  • Request to be lightly choked... you will gush

  • Let him take control and do what he tells you. Let him do anything he wants to do to you as long it's nothing you are not comfortable with. Maybe ask him to tie you up or hand cuff you. Let him pin you down stuff like that.

  • Find a dominant partner

  • crawl on the floor over to him in your bra and panties while he's watching TV

  • Text for tips

  • First question is are you actually comfortable and confident and have trust to be his sub

    • Yes I want to please him & would be down to try a lot of things

    • Well let him know your limits. Then after that do what your told as a sub and enjoy yourself

  • did you ever think about just being a good women

  • being submissive has many meanings for the sex part just letting someone have total control is the part of it

  • Obedience is key 🔑

  • Just be a good girl and listen to you daddy and be eager to please

    • So did you do it and if you did how did it work out

  • let him do all the action. be his pet!

  • Is your partner a dom

    • He’s just controlling so yeah I would consider him dom

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