That's a tough one. usually a guy with a small penis (myself included) feels lucky that any woman wants to suck their cock and so will cum pretty quick. If you told him that his dick is smaller than you are used to than that may be the problem. He may feel inadequate and that you are just sucking it to make him feel better and not because you enjoy it. It is a huge turn on for guys if the girl really acts like she loves his cock. One girl told me she was terrified of larger penises because she thought they would hurt and she only agreed to date me after I told her how small mine was and then she wasn't afraid any more. Knowing that mine was perfect for her was a turn on. There are some physical things you can do. Keep a steady pace. If it is small enough try to get his balls in your mouth as well. find out if he likes his balls played with and do that. Use your tongue a lot. Let him know how desperately hungry you are for his cum and when he cums in your mouth tell him how good it tastes and how erotic it was for you to swallow it. This will boost his confidence and make it easier next time. Tell him how wonderful his cock smells and tastes and how pleasant it feels on your lips and tongue. constant reassurance the first time will go a long way.
1 0 0 0i do all of that... yesterday he told me that he was intimidated and insecure about my sexual experience and his manhood..
I have no further advise. That is pretty much the limit of my wisdom other than to suggest you keep trying.
For some reason some guys find it difficult to come from a bj, I think it's because they masturbate to often and get used to a specific kind of stimulation.
0 0 0 0He has been single for a long time
Oh, so he probably has been depending on masturbation for pleasure for a long time. See if you can get him to not masturbate for a week and then try giving him a sensual bj concentrating on the head and back side of his cock, especially within 2 or 3 inches of the head.
Gently cup or play with his balls at the same time.
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(12)It’s not the size of his cock, people have different erotic triggers.
some guys can’t cum from blowjobs, some struggle from cumming in certain positions.
he may need other stimulation, such as nipples played with, ass played with.
it’s a case of experimenting with his body, talking to him even.
he may been to do something with you as you suck him, such as him licking you.0 1 0 0Same as big dick. Easier to throat.
Throat it. We love it when you girls throat it. Use that tongue.
Don't suck too much as it can feel uncomfortable.
I'm sure you have enough experience to come up with anything else I might have missed.1 0 0 0Grab it using chopsticks
0 0 1 0I can never cum from just a blowjob.
Don't let it bother you so much0 0 0 0You don't!
0 0 0 0So. It has nothing to do with penis size. Just find out what he likes.
0 0 0 0Like you do it normal to a 8 inch cock. No difference. 5 inches are average. I am almost 3 inches... that is small
0 0 0 0Sad I thought mine was big its 6.5
0 0 0 0Small cock easier to deep throat, I suggest you do that wile rubbing his balls, I'm sure he'd like it.
0 0 0 0The penis of the man I gave a blowjob to was small, use your tongue and hand while licking, from time to time take it all in your mouth, and suck
1 0 0 0I love to have oral sex too.
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