Guys, How to built sexual intimacy?

[WizzardGirl]

1-Would you like your girl to learn tantric massage?
Do you enjoy touching massage and handjobs?

2-Sensual women or porn like women?
Choose one and say why

[Dargil]

This is one of the great adventures of intimacy. TMI ahead.
#2 Sensual women absolutely. They have the skill set to get this right.
And you are in total control.

You want to enjoy touching him and he being touched by you. It is an act of love.
*Begin with a (his) shirt and pants off underwear (optional) therapeutic massage.
shoulders, forearms, elbows, lower arms, shoulder blades, glutes and (!) hands.

*Go around front and do the same thing. Except...
*Replace shoulder blades with his man-breasts and nipples. "Milk" and massage them just as you would like.
*This will begin subtle erotic feelings in him and he will want more.

*More therapeutic massage.
Thigh tops, knees, behind knees, calves and feet. Take your time and avoid touching his penis and testicles for now. But he will likely start becoming hard anyway
*Then his underwear comes off, it it isn't already.
*Massage the tops of both hips at the pelvis.

*Then go to the "mound" where pubic hair is. Massage it flat hand in circles, one hand on the other.
*Slide your hands down into his thigh creases, thumbs above his penis and massage up and down.
*You can wrap your hands around his scrotum and massage it as a unit. Do not separate his testicles. Gently kneed his entire package including his penis.

That's when the main event starts.
*Ring his penis at the base with one hand, pressing your hand flat to his pubic bone. This will extend his penis fully and partly retract his foreskin, if he has one.
*Then you can begin a slow, milking motion the full length of his penis. Do it with your thumb on the "vein" on the underside and two fingers on top. Squeeze gently on the upstroke an less on the downstroke.

It is OK to take a short break and tease his frenulum and "meatus" with your finger tip. Don't overdo that.
*Continue the stroking motion gradually speeding up as he begins to rock and his breathing is getting shaky.
*When he begins to ejaculate, pause and gently squeeze his entire penis with your hand for the first 2 or 3 squirts. This slightly restricts the squirts making them more
pleasurable. Then resume stroking as above co coax out the final squirts.

I may have over-answered, but that is how it was done for me and it is a fond memory..

[WizzardGirl]

Wow Im totally doing that

[WizzardGirl]

I want of those answers Thats exactly what i want to learn!!!

[motownplayer2000]

It all depends on the mood. If we ready to go.. then go for it.. building sexual intimacy for me, starts well before the sex even happens. Talking about it, sexting, pictures, descriptions of what you will do for each other, etc.. by the time you get together, there shouldn’t be a ton of time to “warm up” as you should be ready to go

[lightbulb27]

Just touch and certain sounds all it takes.

[WizzardGirl]

What sound What kind of touch . where, how

[20yearsolder]

No I'm not interested in a porn type woman. I would love for my woman to be educated, I try to educate myself to please her and I would like her to do the same for me

[WizzardGirl]

Tantric massage? How to mearn, about what

[20yearsolder]

I'm 56 years old and have lived in this long without tantric massage. Like to have their dick touched and rubbed and licked and sucked

[WizzardGirl]

Thats, what t massage is more or less

[20yearsolder]

Then count me in, that's perfect. Put some warm oil in your hand and stroke my dick up and down

[TenkRealist]

I don't know what tantric massages are but yeah hand jobs are cool

[WizzardGirl]

Full body and cock massage

[TenkRealist]

So like what? You get massaged and jerked off?

[WizzardGirl]

Yes Exscrlty

[TenkRealist]

So like do they do it until you cum?

[WizzardGirl]

I would yes

[TenkRealist]

Sounds nice.

[bowenw]

I like to mix it up and try new things to keep a relationship intimate and fresh.

[WizzardGirl]

New thing like what? I want ti learn tantric massage but can't finf good videos

[bowenw]

I would love it if my SO learned tantric massage for example.

[ArtemisSilver]

I find casual, flirty touching, while clothes shopping is a shockingly good way to build some erotic tension.

[WizzardGirl]

Touch and how

[Straight2thepoint]

Wait. U will massage me? 😢

[WizzardGirl]

Yeah sure

[AFretiredTXn]

I would love soft sensual massages and hand jobs while working through the massage.

I would rather have a more sensual woman than a porn trained woman.

Sensual sexuality is the only way to make love.

[SamuelTray]

1. Sure if she is interested in learning. If not then it’s fine. Yes I enjoy those massages and handjobs a lot. But have only received it once or twice.
2. Sensual woman because they would understand you better and give it to you the way you wanted it to be.