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How to create the ultimate Orgasm?

So when I'm asking this I'm not talking about just cuming im talking full body orgasm where your body trust or shiver and twitch in that o so good uncontrollable way where men just can't stop thrusting and women can't stop there body's from that good shivering and convulsion. So what is the best way that some of you have come to get that to happen, also do people feel that the male orgasm is simply cuming or do you feel there is a full body variant for men, an women what gets you there?
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  • No there are levels to an orgasm and I think cumming and organisming usually happen in tandem but don't have to, cumming for a man doesn't necessarily mean he had an organism and guys can have an organism and not cum although it is very rare.

    My Husband and I have had sex where he cums and he feels good, and feels closer to me an will cuddle but we have had sex that causes him to basically convulse and that causes him to fall when he gets out of bed because his knees have been reduced to jelly, when he manages to get back from the bathroom is out for the count... he says his entire body, every muscle is relaxed and he just needs to sleep and there are stages in between.

    • Nice well I'd say you definitely should win a prize for that so tumbs up. I assume you have had this occur your own body on occasion, and if so what works for you to get you there?

    • The stars all have to a-line but yes I have gotten foot cramps from organisming so hard. Get all swoony in my head and then I feel the opposite from him... I feel energized.. with a normal orgasm I can sleep after but with a super one I can't I want to run 10 miles right after. Then I want to do it like 100 times over the next day.. like a druggie chasing a high-lol.

    • next week, not day.

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  • For me, its that I completely trust and open up to my boyfriend. Tell him what makes me feel the best. We also use toys on both of us. It feels the best when he uses toys and having intercourse at the same time. Except for toy, he drove me crazy when he goes down on me and when we rim each other too. But everyone is different. People need not to be shy to talk and moan loud in sex and show their real reaction to their loved one.

    • Thank you for your openness great answer. The p-spot is a very direct way to go and it is true that people should open up more to eacother in that the trust they build can bring their love making to all new hights.

  • Never heard of this disgusting creepy "convulsion twitchy" shit that people always talk about. I've had a super powerful orgasm once, but I never "convulsed", wtf? It was just like eating something incredibly delicious, really.

    • You do realize that you just made a statement and then canceled out your statment. Like you said "I've never heard of this" then you said "shit that people always talk about". So clearly if you've heard people talk about it you've heard of it. Sorry I'm being an ass it was just something funny to read. But yeah not all women can get to that point it is very unique and takes a lot of trust in your partner and in yourself, plus you have to explore yourself a bit figure out where your big O spots are, and then with all of that be totally relaxed before hand. It's a process to say the least awesome to see and more so to have but it takes some serious effort. Some women it's so easy to get there others practice and some just never do its just that all people are different. I say though if you feel good and satisfied with what your getting and the quality of sex your having then the more power to you.

    • Sorry, it was bad wording on my part. What I meant was that I never HAD it. Don't know why I typed it like that. I honestly hope I never ever convulse when I get power orgasms.. Ick.. Just cringey.

    • That might be why though if your a bit self contious like that it's harder to kind of let go in the way that you need to so it creates a bit of a tenseness down low and you really can't let it out. It's subconscious reaction so you may not realise your tensening. If you where to get over the mentality that it's gross you'd probably get that big huge gigantic O moment. But that something you would have to choose to work on obviously and it would take time. I can promise you though it's not discussing or messy or any of that I've given them to a good amount of my exes and it's not ever some messy or disgusting event it's more of a huge release from stress and everything and the world just feels like it's so far away andnothin mater's but that one moment and you can just go blank in your mind and be in that moment cry if you want literally anything at that point goes, and after the body is just so sensitive to tuch that even touching breast or a kiss would keep it going on and on.

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  • my best orgasm is created by jumping on top of my guys morning wood :) after 90 seconds or so I get the full experience and my body is completely open and ready for another so I roll onto my back for that! ;)

    • Well you have certainly found a method that works well for you now haven't you great answer. So just to understand after what we can call your pregame riding and your warmed way up that's when you get him to switch in the dominant position. If so I actually can see that working well for a lot of couples.

    • I don't really see myself as dominant while I'm on top though.

    • Not what i ment in the word dominant. in this case I was using it to describe a position in which the person on top or you in this case have the controle potiosion so you controle the speed and lunging/trusting. The position that typically has the more maneuverable state at the time and dose more controle the speed and maneuvering is refers to as the dominant position and is often the more physically taxing on the one in said position. So it's not that you mentally are being dominating or anything like that, it's just a description of the potiosion you're in being on top.

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Most Helpful Guys

  • There are different types of orgasms for men.

    There have been two good takes on that topic
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a26336-the-male-orgasm
    www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22912-misconceptions-about-the-male-orgasm

    The most intense orgasm for men is said to be the prostate orgasm, which is reached by prostate stimulation, so you need to be willing to put something in your butt. They are comparable to female G-spot orgasms. Multiple P-spot orgasms are possible as well, since you don't ejaculate.
    Problem is, they are a bit difficult to reach, so you have to "learn" the right technique first.

    • Aha the tantra method my favorite takes a lot of time to controle though and it's fall back is that it's not like riding a bike if you don't use it frequently enough. Never tried the p-spot method have known about it though. Good answer.

  • All orgasms are triggered by your brain, using visual and physical sensations, together with fantasy. You must not have anything else going on in your head to achieve the ultimate.

    • Very true and a big part of acheaving that is ones partner and being trusting of that person.

    • True, any worthwhile relationship requires mutual trust, honesty and respect, together with open honesty communication.

    • Absolutely.

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  • The best way for a guy to get me to have a mind-blowing orgasm is to eat me!

    • That's such a fun way to give someone an orgasm!

  • One word: edging.

    • Good point the only issue is that it takes a lot of time and training to perfect the tantra method that is known now on days as edging and it's not like riding a bike if you don't do it for a while. Still it's a very good answer.

  • Ecstasy. The drug.

    • Yeah I'm more asking a hands on method, not a drug induced euphoria.

    • It is hands on. Ecstacy intensifies... oh bah. You don't care.

    • I do but the reality of ecstacy and it's effects on the body is more of a euphoria as to a full body orgasm It less eouphoric an more eccentric. Keep in mind the effect of ecstacy is to forcebly and unaturaly introduce triggers and additional chemicals in to the brain so as to not only activate a release of dopamine, phenylethylamine, norepinephrine, but also to introduxe aditional sintetics that creat the same effects and overload the body and create disfunction. Dopamine causes the brain to relax the nerves and makes us less susceptible to the feeling of pain and it's also a depressant. norepinephrine is the scientific term for adrenaline which readys the body for physical action and can allow our muscles to exert extream amounts of force in cases of fear, danger, or excitement, and prepares the body for a flight or fight response. lastly phenylethylamine which is a psychosomatic chemical that effects state of mind creating necessary transfers of neurological synapse.

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