How to deal with a husband who wants to have less sex?

My partner often complains about me wanting to have lots of of sex each day.
He has told me me that he will be fine without having sex for a month or two.
He has also told me that he felt being forced from the last 3 years we had sex because I often asked him for it.
I now decided to stop asking him for a sex and felt tired having to ask him all the time and making it like a choir than mutually enjoying it.

How much sex each week is normally acceptable?

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  • If you love him and or want your marriage to remain there are only three real choices.
    (Sex toys, finding hobbies, religious groups etc., are just distractions)

    * Suffer in Silence.
    * Cheat.
    * Become a Hotwife/Vixen (Open relationship sexually)

    The first one is not a fix and is where you are at right now.
    Second one will have you most of the time feeling bad morally. With your libido you would have to cheat a lot and it wouldn't be long before you were caught which would likely end your marriage.
    The third takes a fair amount of effort initially and good communication but it's worth it. It will take care of your sexual needs and at NO cost or effort on your husbands part because I'm pretty certain that you will be able to find a little time every couple of months to fulfill his sexual need. x Z

Most Helpful Girl

  • Maybe he has a lower libido. Put him on some Maca root girl. I’m telling you it makes your libido and orgasms so much better lol. Not to mention the stamina and energy it gives. I got mine from Amazon. I had to stop though cause I became single again 🤧

Most Helpful Guys

  • Two primary possibilities come to mind:

    1. Medical issue. Get him checked because once per month is not normal. Could be low T.

    2. Porn addiction: a lot of men get addicted to porn and stop seeking real women. I hope you are not being forced to compete with illusions, but it is a serious possibility.

  • I could go every other day but a reasonable amount would be once a week. If he won't do that, offer him something in return. Couples often do that. I've heard stories of guys offering their wives $100 to go shopping with if they have sex, for example.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • That is a huge deal. Why I am against waiting for marriage.

  • He fine without having sex with you for a month or two? he sounds like a gay or sexual.

    • I am not sure if it’s really true. Perhaps, he loves his drinking and smoking more.

  • How to deal? Do you have children?

    Choices:
    1) divorce, meet someone more exciting
    2) stay married, but take a lover
    3) stay married, be frustrated

    • No and we are not having a children. Thank you for the options.

  • Just say Nigga just put your dick in my ass then you pull it out and cum in my face.

  • 5 times a week is average right?

    • I like to have twice in a day.

    • That’s fun on the weekends but during the week it can get busy

  • To be honest difficult to say, I have the same issue with her, as she’s fine with once a week, but i’m not, we’ve been discussing it for quite a while.

    • Sorry to hear about that. Sometimes it gets to a point where you just feel neglected.

  • With me id be happy multiple times a day.


    I have the same problem with my wife and I feel your pain…

  • Get me, I want pussy 20 times a day.

  • 3 - 5 times a week is a good normal in my books.

    If he is not interested in sex with you , you could always go elsewhere to get your needs met.

  • Cuckold him