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I got an odd request from my friends with benefits. He said he wants to have totally unprotected sex.
STDs/STIs aren't a concern, so we've never used condoms. So, it isn't because he doesn't like the feeling or condoms or anything.
I use a female form of pregnancy prevention and he's never had an issue with it. It's worked for us.
Now, he's saying he wants to have unprotected sex where he finishes inside me.
Why would he be saying this randomly? We've never mentioned or been interested in unprotected sex to obviously keep unwanted/unintended pregnancy at bay. So, why on earth would he want to have unprotected sex with his friends with benefits? Is he seriously hoping to get me pregnant?
What Girls & Guys Said
1 2sounds like he wants it all and not even being in a relationship with you... that's something married people do and your not married... if he wants that then he has to go find himself a wife but not you... why would you want to risk it all for a guy who doesn't even like you or want to be with you other than sexually.
I didn't say I was agreeing to it. I was just taken aback by that comment and wondering why he'd suddenly change his mind and seriously suggest unprotected sex. It's never been a thing or thought before. We've both agreed to keep pregnancy risks as low as we can.
most guys really feel that way and he thinks he can get you to submit to those things
No way! Not worth risking a pregnancy I don't want just so he can fulfill some random fantasy. I will find a new friends with benefits if it comes to that
definitely... i have a cousin who let not even a friends with benefits cum inside her... guess what she got pregnant and had the kid... he doesn't have anything to do with her other than pay her child support... this is very serious stuff... yes find a new guy that's a friends with benefits who wants birth control or a safer method.
Yea looks like he want to get you pregnant, he might have a pregnancy fetish or something.
He mentioned it again and said he would absolutely risk things and play "Russian Roulette" in that sense with me
I see, you want to play this game, what so bad about having a baby? :)
Well, I love kids honestly. I have no problem being a mom. In fact, I actually always imagined myself having at least 1 kid, maybe 2. I just want to ensure it is with the right guy and we aren't even dating yet 😂
But you have sex with him, how is he not the right guy, why sex is so cheap to you?
I am ok with casual sex and that was our original agreement - be fwbs
You should marry him, let him make you a honest woman, your child needs that.
en.wiktionary.org/wiki/make_an_honest_woman
He probably hates condoms, but don't agree to this unless you feel comfortable with the idea.
As I stated in my post, we don't use condoms. We never have. I use female birth control. But he seriously said he really was wanting NO protection. I questioned it and told him it was a bit risky to do. He just said "eh" and played it off as no big deal, like he wasn't concerned in the least. We use the protection we do to PREVENT pregnancy. It feels like all of a sudden, he isn't caring so much about the potential of me getting pregnant. He kept asking me if I was going to use the protection or not beforehand. I said YES. He seemed disappointed but once again shrugged it off and said fine by him. He said either way he was going to finish in me, with or without the protection and ANY protection is still not 110% guaranteed, so we were still "risky" technically even when we did use our protection. I know that is actually true... but it's just weird it almost seems like he's wanting to have a baby now. And we are just friends with benefits. So that is a bit bizarre.