How to deal with an awkward situation involving my wife's sister?

Hi all, am a 31 year old married guy and my wife and her sister stays in my house. My wife is 27 years old and her sister is 24. Daily morning my wife's sister wakes us up to serve us the coffee and recently I have noticed that while doing so, she is checking out my crotch bulge (morning wood) that's evident through my boxers or pajamas that I wear. This is happening daily and am embarrassed to the core, surprisingly enough my wife isn't yet aware about this. I have tried wearing loose clothes, long tees to hide it but still it's bit evident every morning. How to deal with this situation. Should I let know my wife about this? Looking for genuine opinions. Thanks.
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Guess all the hypocrites who posted rude comments have their belly full now. This is a social platform where irrespective of any gender/race/religion, people come forward to seek their opinions; so at least maintain a minimal sense of dignity before you comment something; Noone is forcing you to comment on posts which doesn't make sense to you; that doesn't mean you can insult someone or take someone for granted who has come here for opinions.
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Dude, foh with this b. s. who the hell does this? You walk around with your crotch like that around your wife's sister? You pervert. You're not fooling anybody. This is either fake and you just have some sick fantasy you wanna share on the web cause it turns you on or you've actually done this and are just a disgusting human being. Get a life and stay offline creep. I see with yours posting this anonymously. Pathetic.

    • @BadAssHunter When you are so ignorant about what a morning erection is then why are you posting your dumb comments here? Read first about what it is and whether it's intentional or not? There's no need to fool someone who is already a fool in real life;lol.. And who the hell are you to say me to stay offline? Dumb bi*ch!!

    • "You to say me to stay offline" lol Funny. Your grammar makes me vomit. I read your pervy little story and guess what? It doesn't justify you going around with it in a house you share with your wife's sister! You're disgusting.

    • I'm ignorant because I know common sense and if I was a guy I wouldn't go around with my junk bulging out in front of my sister in law.

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  • What is wrong with you guys? It was a clear and polite post. Is she staring on purpose or just accidentally check out? If it is on purpose I would totally tell her to not look up because it makes you uncomfortable. If not, then you can't do much. Just get along with the situation. And tell your wife her sister can't stay forever there. It's horrible to not feel yourself at home.

    • Thank you for such a wonderful opinion. We can't make others understand that these things do happen in real life. But as long as there are understanding GAG users like you, no worries for people who come here to seek opinions for such sensitive issues. She stares purposefully;she is moving to a new place in another 2 months time. Thank you once again.

    • Very rude of her. I would totally talk to her, then to your wife, if she keeps doing it.

  • You definitely need to speak up. The sister is in your house making you uncomfortable, then you need to tell your wife so she can nip that in the bud and figure out what the sister is doing. It will be a tough subject but is a need to be addressed.

  • This is silly, ummm don’t come out of your room until it’s gone? She probably feels uncomfortable

Most Helpful Guys

  • Simple answer:
    Tell her you appreciate the thought, but would prefer to get out of bed, and dressed, and get the coffee from her in the kitchen, because you feel a little self conscious of her bringing it to you while you're waking up.

  • This sounds like one of those situations that it won't be a big deal if you don't make it a big deal. But if it's really making you uncomfortable, then I guess talk to your wife about it before bed sometime. And tuck it down one leg xD

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  • If it's my house I would buldge where I want (or can't help like this situation) you aren't obligated to have sex with the sister because she looks (that's my opinion)

  • I think I would thank her for the coffee and then ask her to excuse herself so that you can have amazing morning sex with your wife.

  • I'd tell your wife to talk to her, especially if it makes you feel uncomfortable.

  • Why are you so worried? Tempted?

    • To know why am i so worried about it, you should possess a quality called "common sense" which unfortunately you don't have; so no use of saying. You are the very same guy whose opinions prior to this one was very interesting; so do i need to say more?

  • if she would've wear a shirt without a bra or a tight yoga pants or even if she had just woke up and had a hot dream and got her sleeping short wet and came down without changing it you would've stare too !
    it's normal, the only awkward situation is that you're liking the attention and embracing it :D

  • I've seen a video that started just like this...

    • Hey man; if this was a similar post from a girl, am sure you would have come with very appreciative opinions and all those stuffs; you may have watched some video but thats none of my business okay!! and dude i can pull a snapshot of all your opinions that you have put on post of girls and prove what you are; so stop maintaining this prejudice and double standards at least on a social forum like this!!! Hope you got my point!!

    • Ha ha ha. If this was a similar post from a girl I'd be making a similar kind of statement. 90% of the shit that happens here i dont take seriously because no one should. Its a time killer app that i get to send bits of information into the ether. So whatever you think you could prove about me is worth the 1's and 0's its comprised of. The fuck kind of prejudice are you on about? If youve gone through my shit you'll have seen plenty of times where I've said eberyone on here is a figment of my imagination until proven otherwise. So, I hope you get my point here, when some anon posts a stupidly ridiculous post like this im going to give a ridiculous response without giving a single fuck as to whether or not you're a real person.

    • So im guessing you've blocked me

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  • wow excited

    • Lol sorry for the late response, wanted to ask why excited?

  • Invest in a roll of heavy duty duct tape.

  • Yeah
    Tell her she is your wife you can.

  • You are a pervert get a life or a divorce and put some clothes on

    • Guess you aren't yet aware of so many things in life; anyways don't worry you still have time

    • Stop trying to fuck your wife’s sister weirdo and put some damn clothes on

    • You are still a small kid, just grow up and then come for a debate okay... you are noone to judge me? Mind your own f***king business!!!

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  • No, you shouldn't discuss that with your wife. Rather, talk to her sister.. and yeah talk only when you're sure she's doing that purposely.

  • You sound disgusting. This post is just a fantasy of yours. Stop posting you're dumb fantasies online. I feel bad for your wife if you actually have one. Gross.

    • Hello excuse me; i don't have to make you believe that its a reality and not fantasy; if you stay with friends and family you will realize, okay.. i feel pity on you for the fact that you are a loner in life and showing your frustration on posts which you can't relate to.. Try to be nice to genuine people... If this was a similar kinda post from a girl then all the saviours of this earth would have arrived with their helpful opinions; stop being a hypocrite and don't think that all guys are creeps or pervs.. Okay and be sure you mind your words before posting something!!!

    • Your response alone adds on to your creepy vibe. You know nothing about my life to call me a loner. You're obviously the pathetic old man sharing his disgusting fantasies online. No girl with a brain would post anything similar to yours and if she did, she would get the same response from me. You sound like you hate women and on top of that, you have no brain.

    • I hate only those women who think that they know everything in this world; I didn't start all this; mean people like you started posting rude comments and I am responding back in the same magnitude, if you are too weak to take it then don't give it; and obviously even you don't know anything about my life to say that you feel bad for your wife; act first to improve yourself, then judge others.

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  • When you are up, don't wear boxers or pyjamas. Wear ur underwear and jeans or anything else in which it is covered.