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Guys, how to explain to this guy am seeing that it's hard to improve blowjob when his constant dishing of attempts & instructions make it a chore?

Seriously. When I met him I made it clear that was inexperienced - only been with 2 guys. Unlike many of the cheapass one-night stand dimbos it sounds like he's been with.

And he's the first uncircumcised cock.

All he's done is criticized. Hasn't shown me you know how to hold, how to roll the foreskin, etc. Even when he says I've improved the next day or a few days later he comes up with facts or statements he didn't at the time that is obviously not improvements.

So I don't know if I am improving or if he's a liar.

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Anyway this morning I'm watching a tutorial on cock sucking & the woman's talking about being sensual. And it's like am so upset about the situation am in tears.

How the fuck can I be sensual or anything like that when it's... become a chore. Something simply done nowadays because he asks & I don't necessarily enjoy doing.

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  • TELL HIM. There are so many problems women have in their sex lives that could be resolved by just saying something. Say it directly. "Hey asshole, I'm trying to get better at serving you, but you're making it hard to get inspired when all you do is bitch about everything I'm doing wrong." Then lightly bite his cock if he starts complaining again

    • That's the thing isn't it, when somebody doesn't enjoy a task they're not going to learn that well are they?

    • Exactly! Lol I'm assuming that you probably aren't doing this because you love jaw pain and the flavor of his sweaty cock. I'll never understand guys who want to be rough and dismissive of women who suck them; she has a lot of power to cause you a lot of pain with her mouth, so show a little respect.

  • A decent man would teach you how to better please him orally. Dump him and find another. The fact that you are willing to please him and learn is impressive and admirable.

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  • ENOUGH !!! Let me try to enjoy this before your "happy hole" closes permanently.

    • To be honest I should've told him to get lost after the first blowjob. The entire situation was, in many ways & still is, far cheaper/sleazy an experience than I am used to with the 2 other guys I've been with.

    • I mean to go from initially wanting to have sex to so anxious / agitated that when trying to have sex am drier than the Sahara and tenser than a virgin isn't a good sign, is it?

    • Wow, you certainty think straight and communicate well. Go with your gut !! Plus he's stupid cause he had a very good thing with someone who cares enough to want to please... etc...

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  • Tell him you can’t concentrate while he is barking orders/instructions at you. Playfully State that he needs to shut up, lay back and enjoy it.

  • Have you expressed that you need him to explain what it is that feels good to him and not just criticize you without any input?

    • He has shown. And yet when I think I've improved - because he said or implied it at the time or vocalizations (e. g. oh god) during the blowjob - he turns around a day or a few days later and criticizes me again for that "improved" blowjob. So it's not really... fun anymore. I mean if your girlfriend said you were good at sex & then the next day said you sucked, would you enjoy having sex with her?

    • I would definitely feel very confused and a bit sad, if I did the things she asked for and she just say it's bad without coming with helping tips to make it get better.

    • He has made tips and then when I think I've improved he says otherwise later

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  • Yeah, it should be fun. If he is making it a chore, then he is doing something wrong, not you. Find a new guy.

  • I think there's a serious communication issue that you have to solve together.
    Blowjobs and other sexual activities should be fun, enjoyable, and they should feel great to both parties.

    He should be grateful for the joy and good feelings he receives from you (and vice versa). In my opinion, criticism is wrong, and good communication is key.

    Good luck!

  • If you suck him off and he cums in your mouth he's got nothing to say about it.
    He should worship the ground you walk on.
    He's a very lucky and ungrateful bastard.

    I'd look around if I were you.

  • Ask him for written instructions or
    talk before action or
    tell him to take notes and give those to you right after

  • I think communication is key. You'll get better results talking to him about it than people on here can give.

    • We HAVE spoken about it He has shown. And yet when I think I've improved - because he said or implied it at the time or vocalizations (e. g. oh god) during the blowjob - he turns around a day or a few days later and criticizes me again for that "improved" blowjob. So it's not really... fun anymore. I mean if your girlfriend said you were good at sex & then the next day said you sucked, would you enjoy having sex with her?

  • Well, giving head requires art and passion. If you love him you find out the way to please him.

    • Suck a dog's dick, loser

    • You're so thankful to those who reply to you

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