How to feel good when being fingered?

[Anonymous]

Every time my boyfriend tries to finger me it hurts, I want it to feel good! what should I do? we go slow and use lube so I dont know how to make it work...

[thomasjjeffy]

umm it shouldn't feel bad. Maybe he's doing it too harsh. Use a smaller finger maybe? Or position your legs differently. OR he's not going into the right direction. But you should feel all these.

In case you're virgin, that can explain it.

[Asker]

I am a virgin, so what do you suggest?

[thomasjjeffy]

Well virginity is all up to you. I mean what you do, it depends on you how much YOU value it. Losing it might have something advantage of course, BUT the card has two sides. And in this case (to be honest) I am not even 100% sure that it would help to solve the problem so don't rely on my answer. Maybe some research from internet or trusted people/doc might be a better option. Also, my opinion is that I don't like it when girls loose it to someone whom they're not together for very long and deep.

[Asker]

well I am planning on saving my virginity for marriage, and I know that my boyfriend is the one:) but im waiting! we just want to have fun other ways!

[thomasjjeffy]

Perhaps you can try to play with toys if it is better. You can try different sizes, gradually bigger.

[thomasjjeffy]

and!! It is nice of you that you are saving it :)

[Asker]

Yea I know its kind of old school but I think its really amazing!

[thomasjjeffy]

Honestly, if I really knew that there would be someone to save it for me, I would had been down also. Unfortunately I have lost it already. But still I can wish the best to you and if you have any question, just ask :)

[Asker]

Thats ok! yea there aren't many people who are into that now, but thankfully my boyfriend is amazing and waiting with me:) just sent you a friend request, or whatever its called! lol

[thomasjjeffy]

is it you with the 79 questions? I followed you back

[Asker]

yea!

[jeanmichelfitness]

If you're a virgin, tell him to focus on the clitoris stimulation instead of going inside. Anyways G spot stimulation isn't for beginners...

[kaylaS91]

Try to get him to focus more on your rubbing your clit. It's hard for me to enjoy being fingered if the clit's not getting any attention, plus when it does you'll get wetter which will make any actual fingering more pleasurable.

[Anonymous]

I guess you should lay back and try to relax.