How to fight off erectile dysfunction and how to get a boner that lasts for a long time without any medications?

[Anonymous]

[MikeTheBartender]

What kind of shape are you in physically? Do you lift? Do you run? Do you eat healthy?

Let's go to mental, number one tip I can give, do not watch porn! Not for moral reasons, but for mental reasons. Your brain is hard wired to easy digital sex it makes it unavailable for real amazing sex.

More mental, are you depressed? Work on that as well.

[Asker]

I am in shape apart from my stomach which is a bit out No I dont run but I go out for a long walk once or twice a week Depressed - I have been having this pressure on my mind in terms of financial problem, parents fighting and not losing my virginity as well even though i am 28 now :( My friends have enjoyed a lot and are getting married now while i dont even have a girl in my life.. I have to take care of everything in my house all expenses which leave nothing for me to enjoy so basically my life sucks as well!

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

Wouldn't think you would have any at that age. Anyways diet and exercise can help quite a bit along with vitamins and supplements

[Asker]

I am a virgin and went to have sex with a milf of 38 year old, we enjoyed good foreplay for a long time however when i went to put the condom on i noticed my dick wasn't getting hard i think i was nervous as it was a first time and i wanted to satisfy her fully on the bed after that nice long time of foreplay, but ended up disappointing both of us. So i want to work on this so that i can give a good time to the lady i meet next time. FYI it was a hookup.

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

Yup sounds like you psyched yourself oit of business. Hopefully she likes you enough to give you a second chance. Next time quit thinking about it and just go with it... if you cum too soon you can always keep going but at least your body will get use to the feeling of sex

[Asker]

She was kind and kept telling me it okay and not to worry about it, i was shocked though when she told me dont put on the condom and just fucking me raw you will feel better and you can cum inside me i have no problem. I still said no and put the condom on but it did not work out. so after that one night we never met again, i am using tinder currently to get back and meet someone new to have a better hookup then the last time.

[AshleyTaylorDanny]

Well at least you used the condom... you never know. Next time take your time again with the foreplay especially oral. Maybe the next girl will work out

[imjustadude]

You may want to try jacking off with your chosen condom in your spare time to see how it feels. Maybe the condom could be the problem? You have to get one that fits. If you are thick, you have limited options like mysize 69 or Pasante Super King (my choice). If you are a regular size there are dozens of options. I tried most of them before deciding I needed a larger one. Get a variety pack if you can. I hate condoms and have thought of getting fixed. Don't go raw though. Not worth it for one night stand.

[wanderingponderer]

Cock rings?