Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Make out, Duh!
See if they use their tongue to your liking. If he's a good kisser, maybe he's good at working your other set of lips too! If she's a good kisser, maybe she will be good at licking your lollipop. If they like giving hickeys on the neck and elsewhere... hehe well good for you... but If they like to bite lips really rough when kissing, then be cautious of your privates hehe π If they can't kiss good, then they probably will be sloppy at going down on you too. Unless you're into that kind of thing, I suggest you teach them how to kiss first.
#GetYoGrindOn
I really wanted to post a more explicit gif but im about tired of getting in trouble lol so take this piece of PG13 crap :) If y'all can grind then y'all most likely have good enough rhythm to thrust, ride, THE WHOLE DANG SHE-BANG!! Or maybe just dry hump. If they still suck at sex in the future, hey, at least they were lapdance material. If you suck at dancing, learn to crawl before you can walk...
Strip & Bate!!
Alone, In front of each other, with each other, etc. Its not sex. It's just touching. You can be a virgin or celibate and still jerk him off/finger her... I think lol. If that's too much, then just grip the booty and smack it two or three times. Anyways, the point I'm making, you get to SEE EACH OTHER. He can see if he likes your tightly packed cooch or if he prefers that sandwich that looks like ham is coming out. And she can tell you if you LOOK big or small enough for her. But hey, just because it doesn't look that appealing doesn't mean it won't feel appealing.
#TalkDirtyToMeh
Not everyone lives up to their words but it's a start. It's like a preview. Tell me what youβre gonna do to me one day, so I at least know what to expect. I just hope the receiver lives up to the expectations. It's good to have a dirty sense of humor, but if their words don't turn you on because they're too vanilla or too freaky, then hey, leave 'em while you still can. π
Lay it all on the table!!
Not his/her body. That will come much later... hopefully. Anyways, If you're the type who doesn't want someone who's slept with 5+ people, or you prefer someone with so much experience that even you can't keep up with the 100 people they slept with, then let them know early on. Don't do this on the first date, but do so whenever you both decide to reveal your sexual preferences. This especially goes for those who have weird fetishes like cuckolding and sniffing/licking/sucking toes. Not everyone wants to feel pimped out or like they're at the podiatrist spa 24/7.
REMEMBER PEOPLE, COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!
#FeelFreeToList #aDizzyDesiiTake
P.S. I suggest you try the things above when 18 and older π and out of your parents house. Unless married, when doing certain sexual things, remember to practice safe sex.
What Girls & Guys Said
21 77Good tips
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I always try my shoes on before i buy them. With that said, if he can't kiss then sex won't happen. If he kisses good then dance. If you move smooth together than in my opinion sex will be good!
Hahaha
For me it's simple: if I feel I'd like to come home to you one day, I'll develop feelings for you :D
Sounds good
Most important of all: Talk. :)
Yess
My ex is a great kisser, he sucks in bed so there's that. But then, he also sucks at dancing. So there's that. I think it comes down a lot more to having the right chemistry and connection. If ya'lls vibes are off then idc how good he kisses or grinds, it's not gonna go well.
Yea soneone else told me i shouldve caed it chemistry instead of compatibility lol. But hey if he sucked in bed, you were posed to teach him hehe
Hopefully me and my girlfriend are sexually compatable with eachother
Good luck :)
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Interesting, I also think these are good ways to practice.
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The best way to find out if you are sexual compatible is to love each other, and grow and teach each other about what y'all like and dislike durin sex..
Yea i mentioned that above
Yeah, I know I was just makin sure you knew I knew.. LOL..
I have read and heard that a girl can learn much more about a guy from a session of cunnilingus than from hours of guarded conversation. The passion with which he delivers oral sex, how he immerses himself in you, will prove that he is compatible even if he is a short round with a hair trigger like I am. Cunnilingus IS sex/making love.
Lmao oral sex will not teach me before actually having to do it unless im watching someone else do it. But having it performed on me is not teaching me 🤣 Its more like iβd be goofing around in the back of the class rather than paying attention to whAt the teachers teaching
I guess we agree to disagree here.
From what I know the biggest incompatibilities are actually around frequency and how to handle when one person is in the mood and the other isnβt.
I do -wonder- if how often people masturbate usually when single gives a clue.
Lol maybe
Yeah.. no. Nothing you mentioned prepared me for the only kind of sex my ex was able to have.
Mostly instinct I'd say. A mix of looking at each other noticing reactions ; smells ; pheromones as someone else mentioned here ; wanting to be with each other ; eager to do things together ; kissing ; stripping and masturbating, each other and for each other, in front or near one another, seems an excellent initiative because of the confidence this implies.
Ooo exaaaactly
You just need to love the person, be willing to communicate, and willing to learn.
Exactly :)
Doesn't make much sense, honestly. Sexual compatibility has so many facets, and this list only focuses on whether or not that person turns you on.
Thats compatible enough for me. If i like how you look, act, and as a bonus you can turn me on... sounds like a match made in heaven... especially for thise of us who want to wait
I get that, but it may be better to call it something other than sexual compatibility. Sexual compatibility is so much deeper of a subject (no pun intended) that you literally have no idea until you've actually been getting busy for a while. Maybe call it sexual chemistry?
Hmm yea you're right
I like your take on this, but there are a few things I do when first dating:
1. The kiss is important, one long kiss with my hand usually rubbing her cheek, then her other cheek 😏 is usually how I like to start
2. Another day, I go down on her. Not some 2min thing to show I care I mean proper muff diving! Change the positions and at least 10 minutes
3. First sex, I give her control, she's having sex with me rather than I am with her. And usually if the chemistry is right and I've teased her beyond reason, she'll squat rider her way to an orgasm!
I feel that all girls are different, they like doing different things and have different comparabilities that I want to learn from to see how she likes it 🤷🏽ββοΈ
I dont really like my face touched but yes a kiss on the first date is a must I consider oral to be sex so yea I don't know
Exactly! I don't understand why people always deny existence of white privilege. From the other side, I believe it is straight racism (white vs world) wrongly considered as privilege. Sure you can condemn it but can't deny it's existence.
Wrong take lol
Sorry lmao. My bad.
White privilege doesn't exist. GET OVER IT.
@youtoo Exactly... it's quite the reverse now !!
Mature respectful communication is first, Body preparation is second, and getting to know the person third which are the keys because Sex is an exercise, and the same way that anybody prepares to get in shape (knowing what you like) is the same approach for sex.
All he had to do was tough me and I was on fire
This is some cool stuff right here
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Iβve never tried this things cause I never had intentions on having sec
Even better. Just pointers just in case