Make out, Duh!
See if they use their tongue to your liking. If he's a good kisser, maybe he's good at working your other set of lips too! If she's a good kisser, maybe she will be good at licking your lollipop. If they like giving hickeys on the neck and elsewhere... hehe well good for you... but If they like to bite lips really rough when kissing, then be cautious of your privates hehe π If they can't kiss good, then they probably will be sloppy at going down on you too. Unless you're into that kind of thing, I suggest you teach them how to kiss first.
#GetYoGrindOn
I really wanted to post a more explicit gif but im about tired of getting in trouble lol so take this piece of PG13 crap :) If y'all can grind then y'all most likely have good enough rhythm to thrust, ride, THE WHOLE DANG SHE-BANG!! Or maybe just dry hump. If they still suck at sex in the future, hey, at least they were lapdance material. If you suck at dancing, learn to crawl before you can walk...
Strip & Bate!!
Alone, In front of each other, with each other, etc. Its not sex. It's just touching. You can be a virgin or celibate and still jerk him off/finger her... I think lol. If that's too much, then just grip the booty and smack it two or three times. Anyways, the point I'm making, you get to SEE EACH OTHER. He can see if he likes your tightly packed cooch or if he prefers that sandwich that looks like ham is coming out. And she can tell you if you LOOK big or small enough for her. But hey, just because it doesn't look that appealing doesn't mean it won't feel appealing.
#TalkDirtyToMeh
Not everyone lives up to their words but it's a start. It's like a preview. Tell me what youβre gonna do to me one day, so I at least know what to expect. I just hope the receiver lives up to the expectations. It's good to have a dirty sense of humor, but if their words don't turn you on because they're too vanilla or too freaky, then hey, leave 'em while you still can. π
Lay it all on the table!!
Not his/her body. That will come much later... hopefully. Anyways, If you're the type who doesn't want someone who's slept with 5+ people, or you prefer someone with so much experience that even you can't keep up with the 100 people they slept with, then let them know early on. Don't do this on the first date, but do so whenever you both decide to reveal your sexual preferences. This especially goes for those who have weird fetishes like cuckolding and sniffing/licking/sucking toes. Not everyone wants to feel pimped out or like they're at the podiatrist spa 24/7.
REMEMBER PEOPLE, COMMUNICATION IS KEY!!
#FeelFreeToList #aDizzyDesiiTake
P.S. I suggest you try the things above when 18 and older π and out of your parents house. Unless married, when doing certain sexual things, remember to practice safe sex.
What Girls & Guys Said
21 77I can agree with you on almost all points. Good job, well done!
Thank you :)
If while making out things just get out of control and a frenzy starts between the two of you. Then an hour later round two begins. That's a pretty good sign
Hahaha
Ridiculous. Kids aren't any good any of it cuz they have zero experience. And just cuz you can 'bate someone doesn't mean you're compatible.
So much FUD here.
Stop being so rude
Communication is indeed key, luckily I've never met a girl who liked me that wasn't also bold af with blurting out sexual intentions, also I love how the site's editor gets reported for lewd posts lol.
Why is it that depictions of nudity and sex are even considered so much worse to post online (or have in media in general) than gore and violence?
Also I remember that scary movie scene (though I forget which number it was),
Is that an actual thing though? (people shitting/pissing everywhere) I really hope not... ._.
Lol βeditorβ just means wrote a bunch of βgreatβ mytakes. Its not extraordinary like a mod or anything haha
Ah ok, I thought it meant you edited the site as a moderator lol.
Yes a lot of people assume so but nope. Its hundreds given editor status for their mytakes haha
They really need to work on their titles. According to them you're a website mod, and I'm a midget space wizard... oh wait.
Hahaha
You won't know until you have sex. Great sex is an art that gets better with practice. There's a lot of variables that can affect how great sex with a new partner can be.
True
sex positive people will hate this take
Yea probably
There are things in life that you won't figure out with dry practice and talking.
Mmm ig
Dunno what ig means xD
I guess
Yeah. I guess if you set that standa yourself, then you gotta find a way around it but really I don't fully understand why you wouldn't just have sex instead of doing all those things xD I mean it basically means you're ready.
Lol weβre ready bt weβre waiting til marriage :)
Yeah but why? XD
Religious reasons
I mean how long are you waiting for realisticly?
Weβre hopefully marrying by mid-end of 2019. If not, then im gonna go single forever and go to a sperm donor
Wtf lol xD might as well have sex then. Jokes aside I respect your religious decision so I wanna make you aware of an issue that arises from this. If you hold of on sex for that long, we humans tend to slowly but surely let our expectations grow more and more. So that once you finally have sex it's a let down. Be very careful with this
Yea well with my ex i had no expectations and the sex was still a let down but i understand
Also in Not quite sure if the things you mentioned are ok according to religious standards... I have left that path but I believe I remember this from my the in it.
Letting my ex pressure me into sex before marriage was my biggest regret. i was 15 and he just kept pressuring me for months :( i gave in and still regret it til this day. Thats why i returned to celibacy and been celibate for 8 years now. Im waiting til marriage again with my virgin boyfriend. Im not sure what all is okay as a christian because i dont read the bible but i do know that sex is the main thing so we dont do that
Wtf you had sex? xD what's the point of waiting now then. You're already going to hell anyway according to your religion right? xD isn't that how it works? :, D
Nope u can repent and get saved. Christianity is all about forgiveness if you ask for it and mean it. A born again virgin may not be a real thing but you can return to celibacy til marriage
Haha yeah just feel like most Christie are not about forgiveness at all xD they're quite quick about judging someone to hell in my experience xD
Oh yes we judge but then we ask God to forgive us :)
Intelligent myTake.
Thanks :)
haven't read it yet. Have you ever kissed someone and wanted to throw up afterwards? Happened to me and realizes we weren't compatible Lol
😂😂😂😂 i usually know if ill want to throwup before their lips touch mine haha
Great take! I also like when a girl is sitting on my lap then slowly grinds on me getting me hard. Makes me want to just take her then and there!
So freakin sexy
Discussion is good
The only way to find out is to go to church and ask lord Odin for help!
I don't know who lord Odin is but yes def ask THE LORD for help
Odin is the Lord, the only Lord.
kiss each other see if anything sparks cuddle with each other hug each other and like you said rub her pussy or his dick its not sex if all of this together works you are 100% Sexually Compatible
Yepp
Sexually compatible. Wtf does that mean anyway? It fits.
Um.. what
Interesting
Hah :)
You can't.
This entire take is pointless. No offense, I get the idea you're trying to go for, but the only way to know if you're sexually compatible with someone is to have sex. Several times. Sorry.
I hear you. But im trying to help those of us who want to wait until the time is right. This can be for nonvirgins who dont want to give it up too soon or for virgins who want to wait til marriage. Im just giving ideas to those who want a sneak peek but not to explore everything so soon
None of which will actually tell you if you are actually sexually compatible.
THAT takes time and sex.
Kissing is a big sign for me...
Me tooo
I've had my own experiences where she wanted to wait... which I totally respect.. but when you have a kiss... you know if there is a connection
Well no i can see a connection without being physical. But a great kiss is what tells me if i want to be official boyfriend/girlfriend with them
Yes it's better to be vocal and have a connection verbally right? but no matter what physical touch is a real thing.. hence why I said kissing
Indeed?
Huh?
Wow that's an impossible question. To answer for me , I just can't. Find that 100%
So you tell me how you could or would do that I would love to learn.
Its not a question. Its a mytake which means read above cause i already answered it for you
Haha, sandwich with the ham sticking out. Thanks for the info.
Lolll