How to find people who treat me right who won't ask for sexual favors?

[Anonymous]

Ever since I was 12, all the people who were closest to me (my family relationships and female friendships are a reck) were all interested in sex (including pedos). Now I'm 23 and had 2 jobs, the first employer was shit with me, but my supervisor sexually harassed me, he was the only person who treated me nicely in the office. My second job, my boss is testing the water to see if I'm OK with him cheating on his wife with me. I live in an arab country and most girls are conservative and wear hijab, so I'm the odd one out. Even my friend now keeps asking when are we going to have sex, and I keep saying I don't know even though I don't want to, cause I don't wanna lose my job or my friendship. I'm crying and I don't know I hope someone has something to say 💔💔💔💔💔💔

[MotorcycleMan]

Yikes, you poor thing.
Be honest. Be nice, but firm.
Saying "I don't know" will be heard as "You want to, you just don't know when yet".
I've met Arabs who told me that there is a kind of belief that American women all just want to have sex. They are loose and have loose morals. If you loose a friendship over not having sex with someone, then it was never a friendship.
Another funny belief I heard about was that since it is not against the law for men to have sex with other men in the US, that they assume that most American men are gay or bi.

[Anonymous]

There will always be guys that try to get sexual favors wherever they can. All you can do is firmly tell them you are not interested. Don't give them any reason. It's your body.

[PrinxessCha]

You are allowing people to be so comfortable and disrespectful towards you. Press harrasment charges against anyone harrasing you. Call your bosses wife and tell her he wants to fuck you. Tell ypu friend you would not fuck him if he was the last giy on earth.

[Kas19]

It's difficult :/ Even making platonic make friends is a struggle. You can probably make friends in school if you attend!

[Kas19]

Oh you're Arab... yeah you should leave that country..

[Agape93]

Go to a better country, where women are valued instead of being made into objects.

[Nicegirldaqui]

Go to live in another place, or try to be as serious as you can at your work. And intimidating.

[AmeerX]

Straight up tell them if they want you they have to marry you

[2021biguy]

Don't worry there are still good people in the world that will treat you right even thought the world is filled with rotten men and women.

[Anonymous]

I was in an Arab country for holiday and I know what kind of people you're talking about, unfortunately, in these countries where having sex outside of marriage is illegal people are hornier and have higher sex drive because of their limitation
the best way you can get rid of these types of people is by getting along with them and becoming one of them
dress like them act the way they talk and react, for them, you're literally that white girl in the middle with black dudes around you, you're different and that difference makes you special among them

if I were in your place I would find a guy who actually likes me because of me by becoming one of them and finding a mate and temporary marrying him
but be careful because Arabs are super good at acting like a nice dude, if you can find a mate who is also from another country

[Anonymous]

I would start with leaving the Arab country.