Take it slow. You tried in the shower standing/kneeing.
Next time have him lie in bed. Him facing up. Start kissing him, move your finger down, play with his balls see his reaction. It's also very sensitive Betwern his balks and his anus area. Rub, tease, lick it. Contiue to go down by the outside of the anus area. Massage it with your finger, Get it wet with your tongue, gently insert a little n watch for his reactions. Take it slow, don't try it so far in May scare him off.
My ex wanted me to strap him. By the relationship ended...
So he really really love it. Enjoy and
Have fun
He loves it when I love his balls. His balls aren't sensitive at all. Almost like he loves being squeezed (not too hard ) I did rub the area between balls and anus. He did moan but not sure if it's moaning for BJ or the rub haha
I had a Husband out in Egypt who was Not into the Butt because Being a Muslim... It is taboo.
However, I do Recall that he Relented because I as a wife, well, still am, to Merely Go Slow Inside so he can Enjoy the Ride and then, Slip and slide, Back and Forth, is quite a Delight. However, with Shower Power, this is even More Inviting because of the Sprays in these Ways.
It's nice as Spice for girls as well.
Good luck. xx
Do you have him facing you or have his back towards you?
Actually when he was On top of me was the best from the rest.. and with me, on my own side, when it came to "My turn" was good for me and felt very relaxing. xx
i will try it next time, i massaged his balls while he was on top of me and he loved it. His butthole isn't far from balls haha
Sorta similar how you would your pussy just tighter fit and need quite a bit of lube. The prostate is just inside maybe 2 inches toward the abdomen so you can sorta curl your finger up and gently go in and out and he'll love it. I do it to my boyfriend and he moans like crazy and tells me he loves when I'm inside him. We only do it on occasion but it's exciting when we do get to do it
if he is faicng me I would slide my finger in and curl up and gently go in... what if he is facing me with his back? is it still doable? or I will to change the finger technique?
Yeah just change the direction of your finger. Ass has a lot of nerves but men also recieve a lot of pleasure from the prostate which will always be toward his abdomen so you always want your finger to curl toward his abdomen. It has to be straight to go in but once in there's little room to curl up and wiggle around a little.
I guess I can't really "surprise" him as I do need lubes and he will see it.
LUBE! lube is very important, lube is key, and going very slow at first until he relaxes. just keep searching around for his prostate too, you'll know when you find it
A lot of straight guys like ass play.
The prostate orgasm is intense.
But if he honestly wants you to play inside, he needs to give you the curiously of cleaning it out. If he is into ass play chances are he has done it himself before.
Yes it might be clean on the outside because of a shower but inside won't be clean... unless he flushes himself out with an enema.
I've never done it before, what if I only insert 1.5 to 2 inches of my finger. Would he still need to flush himslef out? Or I can stick wtih just touching it from outside.. as it could be the form of play he meant.
Well it depends on how well he cleans. Does he shave his butt hole? Having the outside gently touched and or licked is very arousing, so you can stick with that for now and see how it evolves.
He is not hairy there. but I will stick with touching him outside
Start slowly and not too deeply and increase the depth and action as he adjusts. The goal is a prostate massage, best combined with a killer blow job.
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guess it's not a good move in shower? the first time I touched his was when we were hugging in shower. I lather up my finger and reached his butthole from behind while we were huggiing. I was only massaging the outside.. would it be a good idea to insert? or only do that during a BJ whiele he was kneeling down?
What you're doing is great. The prostate massage can wait. Just let things progress naturally for you as a couple.
Sure I will take it slow, I've never touch a Guy's anus before. Im just comfortable with him and he seems into it. Will let things develop and let him ask for it or more relax as I don't wanna hurt him. In hind sight it make sense why he loved my slender fingers when he met me lol
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Clip your fingernails
My hubby is aroused when I finger his butt during sex. Dry finger hurts. Apply any lube, cream or even your own precum.
Ok first of all.. that shit ain't right.. but anyway, do it slowly and gently and have some kind of lubricant, as you get deeper and he relaxes you can add another finger.
But you know where this is going right? Before too long he'll be asking you to fuck him with a strap on.
Would that make you see him as less of a man?
I've never fuck anyone in the bum before. I don't think I will see him less of a man. I get what you saying though, as it's a very submissive position. Having said that, he seems to enjoy me contacting him. As he was complaining about why he has to initiate all contact. However he is the one to initiate plans. So thays still a manly thing to do.
Ok bend him over make a fist lube your whole hand and arm and punch him as hard as you can.. bury you arm as far in as it goes.. if he cries out call him a pussy and punch him again..
He will love it
Thanks for letting us know you like it hard
well thats odd, i never heard a guy enjoy figuring
fingering*
I wasn't asking for judgement for my boyfriend. It's not unusual for straight guys to like it.
Don't!
Shove your finger in
Just use lube, then it will work fine.
Hard and fast I like
grow your nails long, dont use lube and he will moan even louder lol
Is that how you like it?
Jus imagine it's yours and get it wet first start with rubbing it circle motions then work it slowly in.
Ouch I wouldn't want anything in mine. But I will lube up and go slow on him.
Lol don't knock it till you try it it's an amazing feeling
Have you tried? Did you like it?
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