How to finger yourself without feeling pain?

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Well, I tried I didn't feel any pain but it was a bit weird
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  • If you are doing it yourself, then I would make sure you are getting turned on enough before trying to use finger in yourself.

    if you are not turned on, you will not really be wet enough or relaxed enough to play.

    look at using some lube, be aware of what you can use due to potential yeast infections etc.

    decent article here.
    https://www.healthline.com/health/healthy-sex/vaginal-lubricants#things-to-consider

    there are also some good videos on it all, Google them as not posting links lol.

    • Thanks for the advice 😁

    • As @snakeboop said, if it’s painful and you have tried this stuff, then doctors. Also look at reading erotica, work out what excites you, everyone has different things that turn us on

Most Helpful Guy

  • If you have had any gynecological exams, you should be open enough to finger yourself or to wear tampons, etc. Often, there is enough hymen to cause pain and many women have bled from a torn hymen with first time sex. But usually normal life with normal things like horseback riding open up the hymen.
    As suggested, you can stimulate the clitoris without penetration and that is where most women get most of their pleasure. Once you are aroused, it is usually easy and pleasurable to finger yourself (or have another person finger you). Eventually you should have no trouble putting large dildos and vibrators in there.

Most Helpful Girls

  • ermm, you should not feel ANY pain with fingering yourself. Try adding lots of lube, listening/watching porn if it turns you on, nipple stimulation and such depending on what you like.
    If you're still experiencing pain, it may be worth a doctor consult as that isn't normal.

  • If you’re not properly aroused.. putting anything in your vagina isn’t going to feel very good.

    • You seem experienced about it ☺️

    • @Yellovv I am actually

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Don't do that first, do clit play first and then you'll know when the time is right for that. If your just trying that, it isn't going to be very good.

  • Why you are not letting tounge to rub on your clitoris or vagina, instead of your fingers?

  • Pain is pleasure

  • Probably lubricant on your fingers

  • better just leave a man full of love tongue do that for you.

  • Maybe your not wet enough and thats why it's hurting?

  • need a help?

  • Be gentle and keep your fingernails short, lol.