How to fix embarrassing step-bro situation?

Our parents got married 4 months ago so my new 20 yr old step-brother (three years older than me) has been in college until his university closed for Coronavirus and now lives with us at home. Becoming friends over the past 3 weeks, I offered to help with a “pledge task” his fraternity brothers assigned him to do within 24 hours by saying I would record it for him if he wanted. With no other choice he agonized over it but... I told him if he wanted to get it done to just bite the bullet.

So we went to the beauty salon... and he freaked out when the woman asked him to remove his underwear too. He genuinely didn’t think he was going to be exposed much if at all in front of me but when she said if again, he slowly did it and was suddenly laying fully exposed. I don’t feel weird about it but he really REALLY does... he got hard twice (briefly) and when we talked on the ride home he was mad at me. He said I should have been looking away and that he caught me “staring at it” which he feels was rude. What is going on here? Have any other girls seen a male friend naked and it embarrassed him? What should I do or say... he kinda avoids me and looks away when we pass each other. A friend said she thinks he’s embarrassed I saw him get hard... is that possibly true? Why would he care? Why would he be mad? It’s just a penis... but when I said that it just made it worse
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Most Helpful Girls

  • Allow me to say that the entire story sounds fishy...

    First - Your profile states you are 18 yet if your "step brother" is 20 and he is 3 years older than you, that would make you 17 and not 18.

    Second - In a beauty salon, customers are being treated in separate, closed off room and have changing rooms or you change in the cabin where the treatment takes place

    Third - A serious massage parlor would never allow anyone else in the treatment room besides the customer and the masseur.

    Fourth - You never get fully undressed in a beauty salon. That is highly suspicious. If you need to get undressed, then towels are provided to hide the genital area.

    Honestly, to me, this sounds as a spam question.

  • I have never seen my guys friends naked... I accidentally got walked in on but it wasn't that big a deal... I don't think staring should have upset him... Where were you supposed to look while he was getting it done?(◍•ᴗ•◍)

    • Why would the female asked him to remove his underwear? That is what running in my mind!

    • @best_coocm sounds like they were in the way 🤷

    • I don't get it

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Most Helpful Guys

  • It would be embarrassing for him for any girl to look at his dick apart from his wife/gf. Just say tell him that it's no big deal and you guys are part of 1 family. Most importantly make him feel comfortable and he shouldn't feel like you judged him or smth along those lines

  • A girl close to his age saw him naked and aroused. Furthermore if you are somewhat attractive to him it's more embarrassing because you are off limits.

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  • I meeeeeaaaaaaan 👀😉

  • well he was embarrassed, nothing more to it, just wait some time, he should get over it, so the salon made him get naked, i dont get it

  • Well your technically family or maybe he wanted you to return the favor. What was pledge he wasn't expecting to get naked at a spa? Was it a bikini wax?

  • Id be upset if you hadn't stared.
    Did you laugh at all? Lol

  • Speak to him about it
    Say him that it's just a penis... Not the world treasure

  • Just give it time. The only times my sister saw me naked was by accident & I didn’t give her time to stare. I’d cover up with my hands or a towel or my underwear. But to have her watch me get waxed would be a little more embarrassing for sure.

  • Because he's your step brother, it's weird for you to be looking at him that way. Just go and apologise to him and yeah both of you forget about that and move on from it