For one thing, if this was the first time you had sex take it as a complement. It means that he finds you extremely sexy and that being with you is so erotic that he lost control. This will diminish after you have sex a few times. Also, if you have time, you could try sucking him off or giving him a hand job until he comes then hang out for a couple of hours then get his motor running again, tease him, kiss him, give him a massage or go back to sucking him to get him hard again and the second time in the same day he will last much longer.
He’s inexperienced.
You need to develop some sort of signal that means stop moving. If he stops in order to let the feeling of being on the edge pass, stop with him. It may be frustrating but it will help him to learn to control himself. Frequent sex helps too.
He could wear a condom. That takes away some sensation.
And for god’s sake why wouldn’t he finish you some other way? Oral? Fingers? He needs to know it’s not just about him. Life is too short for selfish lovers.
i keep telling him i want to cum too and he tries for like one minute then says he’ll try another time like i’m about to say that i’m not going to have sex with him until he finishes me first
I don’t blame you. He’s selfish. And if he were smart, he *would* take care of you first. If having one orgasm doesn’t make you too sensitive to continue, it might make it easier to give you more.
Don't do penetration early
Just do touch kiss dirty talks squeeze pull suck lick like things
It helps, I guess
I’ve heard that Durex Performa condoms have a desentizing lubricant at the inside.
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The strategy: oral + manual.
Ya, basic cunnilingous combined with a skilful hand job can make you cum a few rounds before penetration.
And yes, do NOT allow penetration until you cum at least once, or is very near.
No it's not rude to tell him so. Let him play his part before you allow entry. Both deserve at least an orgasm during sex.
To conclude, don't border trying to make him last longer.
There are many ways to foreplay and they can all bring you to an orgasm.
Use these techniques and you'll have great sex together.
Foreplay. On you and on him. But as some other guy said, you have to stop as he's getting closer. Normally I would get the girl to climax once or twice before I ever penetrated. Then it was a goal of one more climax for her, then cum. Unfortunately, sometimes shit happens, he can randomly cum too early, or, I don't know if every guy is like this, but even lose the ability to cum that night.
Depends on his style and girth.
A "for everyone" technique would require him slowing down reducing your stimulation as a consequence, so either learn to cope with your boyfriend being a quickshot or get one with a chode.
Those ones are long lasting.
Semi-jokes apart, you might get your "fill" of pleasure if he was good enough with his hands and mouth while he's doing you. Work on that.
Do something that gets you hot that won't get him off, like him performing oral sex on you.
is it rude to say he can’t fuck me until he eats me out? (i cum from being eaten out)
Inexperienced or highly sensitive? Too much speed? If he's highly sensitive have him try those KY numbing sprays and wait 15 mins. Can also buy and have him wear a vibrating cock ring. We-vibe makes some really comfortable and soft silicone rechargeable and waterproof ones. You spin it that you want him to wear it and that you want the vibrations on your clit while you ride him. You can put it on slow speed and grind and rock back and forth slow on him. My woman loves it and needs the clit stimulating over penetration anyways to have a mind blowing orgasm. Also the cock ring holds his blood flow in for a harder election and can last longer so there's benefits there!
But he has to want to be a good lover and put your needs first. He should focus on revving up your engine! Whether that's through good foreplay, good love making, oral, fingering, using toys, oils, etc, he needs to get you close or through your first orgasm and then go for penetration and however long he lasts, it won't matter to either of you hehe.
Tell him to stop when he feels he's about to cum. Then go back into it. Once you keep doing that, you get into a mode where you can basically keep going without ever stopping or cumming. That's what I do anyways.
Why doesn’t he eat you out to start like any other guy?
maybe you're too hot
he says that too but I don't know
They make lubes and shit that reduces the feeling... try that... I’ve never been fast... I don't know... have him jack it before... lol. That could help too.
he needs to go very slowly at first, even keep still for a minute or so so he can reach "the plateaux", tantric sex techniques could well help you here,,,
If I didn't do this I'd cum in under a minute,,,
Better than the reverse.
your partner makes usain bolt slow
If this is a new relationship, this should just improve the more you have sex and he becomes more comfortable with you. But why not just simply go for round 2. Don't let the sex stop. Lots he can do to you while he recoups, which for most guys doesn't take long. You can also practice the start-stop technique with him (requires communication). Another thing with feeling comfortable, if you guys are able to, try spending time together naked (no sex). Example watching a movie, do it naked. This gets you both comfortable being naked with each other. What it is most likely for him is just too new and exciting still, which often makes us orgasm quickly.
And "never happened to him before" - always happens lol
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