How to get her to suck it more?

She used to give blow jobs all the time. It was almost our favoritte thing to do together. To this day, she talks about the fond memories. She talks about how much she liked sucking my cock. She talks about how much she would like to suck my cock again. But, she never actually does it. Well, maybe a minute or so per month. I've tried everything I can think of to get her interested, but on a good day she just wants normal missionary sex out of it (or the best of times, sex from behind). I've tried cunnilingus, anallingus, excessive foreplay, I've even tried flatly telling her to suck my cock. I've suggested 69s. Dirty talk. I've kept it clean and smelling nice. I don't know what else to do. Any thoughts?
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  • um just say "can you suck my dick?" my ex did this all the time, so he got a lot of head. I wasn't so forward with asking for oral so i never got it from him. I would hint at it but he was clueless.

  • Are you sure she isn't cheating on you... her lack of enthusiasm could be a result of her blowing and sleep with another man, so she isn't interested in doing it with you anymore?

    • it has crossed my mind more than once, but I don't see how she would manage to get away with it - she doesn't have the time. She doesn't seem to have the emotional stability to not have some kind of breakdown as a result. She occasionally goes into a depressive guilt mode over a guy she slept with before we were dating but after we met, feeling like that was cheating. I don't think of it as such, but if she reacts that way to something so ambiguous, it's hard to imagine it occurring for real. Unless she's just a really good liar, which is also possible. I don't know...

    • I'm not trying to scare u or make u feel bad... but I had a guy like that. He'd act sad iver the things and I'd feel like he'd never cheat because he'd tell me... he cheated for two years with my best friend

    • hm. yeah, like I say, I wouldn't put it past her, I just don't see the benefit of her staying with me if she was just going to cheat. I'm very poor. I'm an emotional void. I have an insatiable lust. Everything she seems to dislike wrapped up in one brooding package. If she had anyone she could make any kind of emotional connection with, I'd wish her well. There would be no need to hide it from me, because I know I'm incapable of such things. Yes, we would break up, but she wouldn't exactly be missing out..

  • it's possible that she doesn't actually like it...
    maybe when you're doing your foreplay... CAREFULLY just put your hand on her head and guide her toward the goodness...

    • yeah, that's what I was afraid of. She's been telling me for like a year that she really likes it, but hasn't actually done it..

    • she may have just said that to get your attention... but if you can get her to star doing it and she sees how much you enjoy she'll learn to like it... just got to get her started... thats the hard part :/

    • over the course of the first year we had met, she had probably swallowed at least five gallons of my cum, in total. But in the four years since then, almost nothing. I don't know if 'learning' is the right word. Perhaps re-learning - but I have no idea how to go about that...

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  • "She talks about how much she would like to suck my cock again."<---- i have some feelin that she's fraid of u dude... and she's sayin that coz of this... relax 8)

  • Do more of what she loves and give her LOTS of positive reinforcement.

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  • Flavored lube.

    • she's allergic to air. I don't think this would go over well... :-/

    • Okay.

  • Maybe she just wants a break from it. But if it's really bothering you you can try begging...

    • she hasn't sucked my cock in like a year. And before that not for like two years... How long of a break does she need?

    • Well I'm not sure. Maybe AmandaLynn1930 is right she just doesn't like doing it, that would suck if I were in that situation. All I can think of is begging and doing things in her for return..

  • May be she is bored of BJ's