How to get my boyfriend to change his grooming routine?

So I’m not picky when it comes to body hair…you do what’s comfortable.

my boyfriend has a strange routine where he shaves his crotch completely bare, but leaves his chest, arms, and legs. It just looks and feels odd. Is this normal? I’d either prefer he leave it, or at least shave his chest as well so it doesn’t look as odd.

thoughts on this?
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Superb Opinion

  • Well we live in a strange era where what’s actually normal due to it being natural and correct is considered to be abnormal and/or “disgusting.” On the flip side, what’s unhealthy and unnatural is the new normal and considered the “in” with regard to pop culture.

    The facts are that pubic hair is natural and healthy for both sexes. Men have pubic hair not to keep bacteria out of the vagina and urethra like women do, but none the less to directly benefit women to serve as a padding during intercourse.

    So no it’s not normal to remove hair in this area. This is a porn inspired mindset. It has no useful function being removed. It’s purely aesthetics but the wrong way since hair represents sexual maturity, while no hair represents prepubescents, as well as it being physically unhealthy to remove something that serves a biological purpose post puberty.

Most Helpful Guy

  • So if he asks you to change something about you that he does not like, are you going to me ok with it? It see's like wanting a partner to change something about themselves can very much be a one way street. For example your partner changes his grooming routine. But the moment he asks you to change yours the fact that he asks becomes an issue.

    To me relationships are better when people are fully willing and able to accept someone as a package deal. Even if it's something like accepting each others grooming routine.

Most Helpful Girl

  • So talk to him on how he prefers it. Ask him how he prefers yours too though. Then you can bring up that maybe he could try just trimming it if he's okay with that.
    But his genitals, his body, his choice at the end of the day.

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What Girls & Guys Said

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  • Tell him you don’t like the look. For a guy to shave his chest arms and legs is crazy and painful. Most won't do that. Maybe he shouldn’t shave his crotch bare. Maybe he should just trim that to keep it neat as most guys do.

  • Just tell him what you prefer. He won't know till you tell him.

  • You can always let him know your opinion and what you think is hot. Of course it's still up to him.

  • I thought girl prefer hairy Chest.

  • Most guys don't shave their chest, legs, and arms.

  • Nothing wrong with it, he is doing right thing, because shaved is allways clean...

  • Why guys should shave bald. Looks stupid as fuck

  • Tell him what you'd like. He may want to look like a regular hairy guy around his buddies, for example when he's at a swimming pool in his bathing suit, but wants you to enjoy his shaved crotch. Also, shaving more than the crotch can be a lot of work. He may appreciate it if you offer to help with the shaving, or be interested in laser hair removal especially if you go together.