How to get over a fuckboy who took my virginity?

First things first: I trusted the wrong guy, I know and ai deeply hate myself for what i let him do with me. But I was kinda blind an deaf to everything bad he did.

i waited so long for someone special. I thought it was him and we had sex (only once).
And then after that he told me that him and his ex have had a break and theyre coming back together.. wtf?
This has been two years ago and Im still not over him. I don't know why, i tried EVERYTHING!

What is wrong with me? Please help me...
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Most Helpful Guys

  • Unfortunately in life, it's our mistakes that often help us grow as individuals the most. Remember, life is a balance of the good AND the bad. Every bad thing, every bad decision is a chance to learn. You said that you were blind to all the red flags, so the lesson here is that when you look at someone through rose colored glasses, all the red flags just look like flags. Our mistakes make us who we are ONLY if we learn from the situation. Regret will only hold you back.

    Your human. We make mistakes and that's ok. Just give it a little more time, you'll be alright.

    • You're quoting that owl from Bojack horseman ;)))))) very nice

  • You shouldn't feel bad and be so hard on yourself- it's almost impossible to go through life without making some mistakes as far as romantic relationships go.

    What I do find concerning here is that you are still upset about it two years later rather than focusing on finding a guy who does appreciate and respect you.

    • Yea its been so so long. Thats whats driving me crazy. I don't know what the hell is wrong with me.

    • I think when you meet another guy you'll forget all about the fuckboy.

Most Helpful Girls

  • Normal
    really too much self whipping over a daily event in the life of this world, often with no malice of others and no reason to blame selves on the road to perceived happiness

    Virginity has lost its value over the decades
    while sexual prowess value has increased in like kind

    Ergo, HOW in the world can you have fun driving a car to go new adventures
    that could include love
    if only using the rear view mirror?

  • That's sad! But try to be happy... Find a better guy and live your life happily!
    Go out with your friends! Pursue your hobbies etc

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  • Yes looks like he had used you, that was a waste, you should had not trusted him.

  • Find a nicer guy.

  • Call him up and vent your anger at him - that would do the trick.

    • I quit contact a month ago with him...

    • So? . .

  • Get under another but this time male. Him your father's age and make sure you both have a 24 he window to fuck and suck !!! You wot sven thi. k if him ever again ! Just another lesson in life !!! And if your in Atlanta let me know if be ad to help you out of this memory and get it all behind you so you can move onto life's next challenge

  • Forgive yourself, it's not your fault! What is done is done and try learn from it

  • you are only human. you make mistakes. try to learn from it. avoid at all cost that this incident makes you bitter, cause that will ruin your chances with genuine guys and more prone to fall for another liar.

  • Just find a better man and don't be desperate about it.

  • Make him disappear if you know what I mean.
    Or take your virginity back from him. I think you know how I mean...

    • I quit contact with him a month ago (i did it very often but e always contacted me). But this time i also blocked him everywhere. I deleted everything related to him. I hate him but i still miss him. Its weird... i dont understand myself.

    • Maybe you should look for someone else.

  • Move on and that's it...

  • Stop using term fuckboy... You spread them didn't you? I get that you're frustrated becouse he lied to you, and left you speechless. You want revenge for unfair actions not of what he did to you. Becouse as said you were into it too.

    • I didn't do anything wrong to him. I haven't told anyone anything tbh. Im not s revengeful person. I just wanna get over him. Thats it.

    • I know you did not. But you could have avoid it by being smarter not hating here... It's free to think

  • Goo hve sex wiith different random dudes and you'll get overr with it..
    Tallking you from my experience giirls😝😀😀

  • its just sex lady move on.

  • Enjoy your life. Be crazy

  • Unfortunately there isn't and easy answer to this. I was in much the same position as you were in and it messes you up for awhile because they are your first. But you'll one day meet someone who will make you forget all about him

  • What is a fuckboy?

    • A guy who is egoistic and lies and cheats and treats women badly. Just a bad person.

    • Thats called a player, not a fuckboy.

    • Old person detected

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  • Can I have your asshole virginity

  • Yea let us normal guys suffer and take the fuckboys and bad boys instead who treat u like dirt and do not give a fuck about you ...

    • Way o the world

    • What

    • Drank too much whiskey huh xD