How to get over being shy in bed?

I’m a shy sub. All bark no bite kind of shy (and a brat). Gonna experiment with blindfolds and cuffs (mainly on me) but I’m still shy (especially with riding since I’ve never done it). Assuming I’m gonna have to take things slow?

Having sex with a friend that’s basically more experienced than my few time having self. No anal or threesomes or anything like that
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  • I just listen to seductive music beforehand lol or any music that gets you feeling in the mood and confident. I used to practice riding on a pillow just so my body could get used to the motions, but once I actually do it for real, it's a whole different ball game, I just focused on what feels good for me basically - don't mind the other person, they're not gonna just judge as long as you seem to be enjoying yourself.

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  • Before you even do this with them, you should sit down and talk about it.

    agree limits and boundaries.

    workout how trust is going to work for you both.

    Start small, try and work out a role play story you both like, then play around that.

    try something and see if it turns you on, if not then say so.

    this is always about the sub and not the Dom.

    Key things are.
    TRUST, RESPECT, HONESTY, COMMUNICATION

    those all work both ways.

  • Dear there no any specific tips for overcome from shy in bed, it's depends at you and your partner relationship and how old is your relationship with the boy with whom you sex and when you with a person that close to your heart ♥ you surely express your sexual fantasy with him frankly and enjoy the real taste of sex at bed without any shy with your future partner..

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  • Best advice, just trying experimenting on yourself first, and when with a partner try it with the lights off too if that will help.

  • Try to get comfortable and let loose. Maybe play with yourself before you have sex to be relaxed.

  • Get drunk

  • By just winging it. Just do it.

  • You dont need any advice cuz you are not going to use it

  • watch everything while fucking, do watch porn, go to sex parties, they would make you open up!

  • communication also if you have an ugly body ugly tits ugly nipples ugly ass don't expect to have sex with him again. also if you just lay there like a useless bump on a log don't expect to fuck him again either

    • if he's stuck doing all the work while you just lay there like a useless bump on a log don't expect to fuck him anymore