How to give a good bj and not die trying?

I've tried a few times to give a bj, but it just doesn't work for me. I get tired, my jaw hurts and I've never been able to make the guy I'm with to cum. Any advice?
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Most Helpful Guys

  • A rule on sex about men.

    The more slippery the faster we cum ;) .

    Make sounds and noises , even drink the spit , make it like u enjoy it like u are sucking a tasty juice out of him ;) u can use flavors.

    Look before I start the main course of oral sex u need good foreplay :

    • 1- foreplay : Start by making super horny : how? For me this works better than viagra ( tested ) : A- have nice dinner or sit across the table or whatever u 2 have to hangout like if it was normal night and no sex ;) but u will seduce him so wear the sexiest thing u have. Cleavage , lingerie all weapons out baby don't save anything. B- start moving ur feet across the table and touch his d :). C- drop a spoon and go under the table to get it and start touching his d without removing the pants then rubbing. D- start stroking it still keep pants on. E- start moving ur hands under the pants also don't remove them and stroke :) . Now remove the pants. Small kiss on the head ( Penni's head ) and say : ahhh... I can't wait to taste it. 2- foreplay now is done main course of oral sexual begins : A- start ur action if he is hard already ( better be after all that ) unless he masturbate or had issues at work or been bad day he will be ( or u 2 had sex before earlier)

    • B- start licking it from the sides , put r tongue out and go all the way from top to bottom licking it from the side don't stick it inside ur mouth this is appetizers. Then stuck r tongue out and lick the tip. C- start sucking on the tip like nothing u have ever sucked before. Sick like genuinely find the taste amazing u want to eat more of it XD. D- while u do that every while and then ;) take it out and look up in his eyes smile , bite ur lips seductively ( don't stop stroking with ur hands ) . Keep sucking :3 . E- dirty talk also helps u can say things every while ( take it out and laugh firstly or smile big one ) say : ahh it's getting really big :) or omg I can barley fit it in. Or I like it , it taste nice. Honey I want u to cum for me.

    • 3- keep repeating these things till he cums :D feel feee after u done all in order to repeat in different order now it's about creativeness no rules what ever he likes or u feel his moans or body contraction happens XD do that. Also if u want to have sex intercourse will be next step 4- touch urself and lick ur fingers or put them in ur mouth and go touch urself whole u giving bj. Then if u for wet Enoch u can finish him make him cum or ask him to make u cum or have intercourse or just masturbate front of each other then resume bj The limit is ur imagination sex is awesome when 2 partners are willing to make the other one happy.

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Get a steady rhythm going and increase the speed every few minutes while maintaining the same rythm. If you need to change the rhythm, go deep for a few seconds and then resume.

    • yessss

    • Yeeeeeessss One more tip. No need to go deep for long periods 1-2 seconds is enough It doesn't really feel that good coz our week points are the head not the rest of the Penni's. So focus on the head , what is good about deep is the mentality or the idea of it , turn us on.

    • @1988fido lol. Good to know!

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  • My wife strokes as she blows. Her hand goes up and down with her mouth. She changes pace, depth. It is perfectly normal for your jaw to get tired. It is perfectly acceptable to stop and take a little break. During this time you continue to stroke to keep him stimulated.

  • use your hands and lots of spit!

  • Maybe blowjobs are just not your thing. You enjoy giving blowjobs so much that you want to get better at it?

  • Use lots of spit, use your hand at the same time too. And go deep!!!

  • Stop trying so hard... it should be easy... and use your hands to jack him off while your mouth is around his dick

  • I cannot cum from a bj

  • use your tongue around the head, hand on shaft. you don't need to go deep

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  • Use your hands too!