How to give a good blow job?

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like seriously help

Dargil · Accepted Answer

This is post I have made before. I love receiving oral sex and there is a way to do it right and get the best "outcome", pun intended. So "Blowjob 101".
A BJ is not passionate sex. It's therapy. Do it confidently. There are 3 steps. The first is the arousal stage, which is a relaxed erotic massage. Inside thighs, balls, a little anal teasing and some penis milking. The next step is the work up, which is shallow (to just behind the head) bobbing, sucking and licking in sync with hand stroking the shaft at a moderate speed. He will inevitably approach orgasm but will need the final push. The next step is the finish. When he begins erratic breathing and bucking, he is telling you he needs more intensity RIGHT NOW! It continues the bobbing, sucking and licking at the same moderate, non-tiring pace, but adds VERY RAPID hand stroking of the shaft to and through ejaculation. Don't slow down or take a break. No eye contact is needed (his eyes will be closed), nor deep throating (a silly porn antic), nor is swallowing. But his cumming while you are sucking and stroking absolutely is essential. You can block the shot with your tongue so you don't choke or gag and then you can spit after, if you need to.
The erotic massage can last as long as needed to get him hard and precum flowing... up to 15 minutes or more. The workup may take maybe 3-7 minutes depending on how horny he is. The finish should take only from under 1 or maybe 2 minutes. BJ's fail due to lack of eagerness during the finish. Stroke aggressively until he comes and don't slow down, not even briefly. They also fail from scratching by teeth and braces, so be careful. Intercourse/lovemaking should be passionate and romantic, but a BJ is sexual therapy and is best done skillfully and take only long enough to get him fully aroused so he can get him to the strongest orgasm. A long, relaxed BJ may deny him orgasm and leave him with "blue balls".

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Practice using a banana or a dildo. Go online and watch porn stars instruct you on how to give great head.

Rainie_ · Accepted Answer

- first tease him a little, kiss the shaft and the head and lick a little

- Start off slowly, find your pace that you are comfortable with. Don't stress about doing it super fast.

- Use our tongue to stroke against his shaft when you go up and down (a lot of the time or occasionally).

- If you're going to deep throat let out all air from your lungs and hold your breath like that and go as far down as you can and up and deep down for as long as you are able or need another breath of air (if you need to work on your gag reflexes do so every day with your tooth brush when you brush your tongue).

- Sometimes stop near the head of the penis where the upside down V line is and use your tongue to rub against and stimulate this area as it's a very sensitive one. It's easier to do this without the whole dick in your mouth.

- Occassionally you can go around the tip of the head, twirl your tongue around it or suck on it a little.

- while you're doing all of this you cup the balls and stroke them or just play with them in your hand.

- if you need a breath of air get air and head down to his balls and lick and suck on them, it's difficult to give him a handjob at the same time so if you are not able to do that then have him give himself a handjob while you work down there for a little bit.

- remember to make eye contact sometimes, if you find this difficult you can do it while you get a breath of air and handjob him, or when you lick his shaft (when the dick is not in your mouth).

- Tongue tricks with the dick in our mouth or working outside is flicking tongue, twirling, rubbing up and down, or rubbing your tongue side to side.

(Ps guys please don't sit and imagine me doing this on you 😂😂😂 thnx)

hollygoeslightly · Accepted Answer

Enthusiasm. Eye contact. Worship his cock. Lick up and down the shaft. Moan. Circle the head with your tongue. Lick and suck the balls. Use your hand to twist as you suck. Swallow.

Rawrzz · Answer

Fuck yes. I've been waiting forever to use this gif.

Purpleronnie · Answer

For me it's the tease , the climactic build up and stop and repeat till he is begging then the race to finish him off with mouth tongue and hands , sexy eye contact , talking to him tell him you love his cock etc... tbh... you will find many different helpful guides but knowing you boyfriend is the best guide really.. as well sometimes he wants it a different way... quick and dirty :) his reactions tell you all u need to know... and well practice makes perfect right? 😁😋

rjroy3 · Answer

I only do in person tutoring

InquisitiveMan · Answer

Watch karrine Steffens (honey) vs me marcus. Or search Charlie chase blow job.

Intraluminal · Answer

YouTube is your friend. Make sure that you turn the adult filter off before searching.

BobbyC65 · Answer

There are video's that show you how you can check them on line or check out your local adult store in your area.

sp33d · Answer

NO TEETH!

Jan1ssary_ · Answer

Practice with a banana.

Decentguy · Answer

first go slow with the handjob, like rub his dick slowly while looking at him or kissing him, then, slowly kiss on the head of his cock, then suck his penis head with your lips slowly, then slowly start to take his cock in your mouth and use more tongue and also spit on his cock while doing that

MaLifeBeLikeOooAaah · Answer

Just do it

Kim007 · Answer

open any adult site and u can learn from there.. visuals are always better..

sexcrazy12 · Answer

can google it but the best way is to experiment and communicate. hear what he likes. also stay away from teeth. I like to be sucked the whole shaft in the mouth, flick my head with your tongue. roll it around my head some licking as you go. I enjoy being stroked while being sucked.