Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I haven't been in relationships most of my life, only the last year, so you can imagine I have a lot of experience with a lot of different men and usually casual or even a one time thing. So no I don't make it romantic, turn on soft music and use massage oil. I usually did it in a bathroom stall with loud bar music background and spit on some drunk guy's dick ;) I usually gave blowjobs, but sometimes just a quick tuggie if I didn't feel like sucking it.
First off, the visual aspect is important. use what you have. I am not too skinny, but I have really large firm breasts, so I get them out. Also eye contact and looking at him with a horny face helps, whether you like jerking the guy or not.
Then you can make the situation more sexy. If you do it to your husband and he likes the romantic stuff, go for that, but I can warn you: most guys don't like the soft romantic thing too much. I mostly jacked a guy off in a bathroom, behind a dumpster, in a backroom and honestly that helped me a lot. Guys liked thinking that I lowered myself, acted like a slut, just cause I wanted to jerk their dick so much. I did talk dirty like that, let them call me a slut and played into that role, which gave them an ego boost and thus made them cum quicker. Again, it was just an act, but it works.
Then we get to the technique. Not too fast from the start. build it up and find the right grip. It takes some practice to find the grip so don't be to fast to tell the drunk asshole who hits on you to fuck off. He's a perfect practice target. Use spit! Don't spit in your hands, but on his dick, trust me guys like that way better. When it's wet, you are free to focus on the motion. Keep your wrist loose, the pulse steady, move your fingers a little and give it some twist.
Then we get to the climax. Guys have to cum and of course they prefer to do it on you. I can tell you that my face is the favorite target to most guys, but when you are wearing make up and have to party on afterward, my boobs are the best place. Easy to wipe off.
If you don't want it on you, it's best to get up, get close to his face and maybe moan or talk dirty to him so he focuses on that instead of being aware he's shooting into nowhere. That's not sexy to them. Or it's not ok for him to make a mess, hold your other hand like cup in front of it.
There you go. I hope i helped a lot of girls out and my experience wasn't useless ;)
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