How to give an amazing blowjob?

[Anonymous]

I just wanna learn how to do it better. Guys, what feels the best for you? Girls, what is your favorite thing to do to him while giving him head. I've heard some guys say they like it when a girl gags, but I have no gag reflex, so is that a problem or no? Also, this is kinda a new guy I'm hooking up with, more like a f*** buddy then anything except we're not f***ing yet. So don't judge, even girls need a friend with benefits.

[Jillian222]

Here we go.

Tips on How To Give A Blow Job

The best way to explain a good blowjob is to break it down into steps. You get yourself to the scenario and I’ll walk you through it. 1) Your hand is a fabulous tool during sex. A hand job is a great lead in to oral sex. You never want to make a tight, clenched fist when holding and stroking the penis. Instead, you want to make an “O” shape with your hand around the penis. Again, never grabbing tightly, but loosely grasping. Slowly began stroking the penis, moving your hand from the shaft of the penis to the tip. Tighten your grip as your hand slides up to the penis tip.

2) Using your hand is helpful for two reasons: it is a good start to a blow job and if for some reason you are unable to fully accept a penis in your mouth, you can “fake” the acceptation by using your mouth on the tip of the penis and using your hand along the rest.

3) When you are finally ready to take the penis in your mouth remember not to use your teeth. I tend to do the “gumming” face. Pretend you are imitating a person without teeth, hence “gumming”. By doing this I find that I can avoid using my teeth.

4) Do not try and take the entire penis in your mouth at once—that is unless you know you do not have any sort of gag reflex. Take a little at a time, sucking and massaging the penis with your tongue. When you are ready, go down a bit further. Once you have perfected your blow job techniques you will be able to suck on the penis while massaging and caressing the penis with your tongue. It really can be a mouthful a first. Patience my friend, patience.

5) I find that licking the bottom side of the penis, close to male’s balls, with just the tip of my tongue is highly effective. Flicking that area with the tongue is highly stimulating for the male. I also tend to suck (gently, you have to remember gently) on my partner’s balls. I’m not recommending this for everyone. Some people do not like doing it and some people just have balls not worth sucking.

I find that a combination of all of these techniques results in a fabulous oral romp with my partner. A bit of #1, then #5, back to #1…#5, #5, #5….it’s your decision. Personally, I do not use them, but you can include oral “treats” to the mix. Good Head oral gel comes in different flavors and can make performing fellatio a bit tastier.

Now the question is….spit or swallow?

:o

[Brando]

Bless you, child

[Jillian222]

Heh :D

[SuzieC]

Giving amazing head is something that every woman should know how to do, but unfortunately most women just don't give great head. That's sad because guys love a great blow job and you can provide so much pleasure to your guy when you do it right just. It adds a whole new addition to your sexual repertoire.

If you're been brainwashed to believe that blow jobs are 'dirty' or 'gross' or something that only hookers perform, then you have to learn to lose that attitude. We all have darker desires, your man included, and if you don't share in his darker desires then he might just seek them elsewhere.

Sexuality has many facets, including love making, but it also should include a little edge every now and then. All guys watch p*rn and love p*rn, I don't care what you may have heard to the contrary. So, give you man a slightly naughty p*rn star style blow job and he's going to love you for it. Go and Google Jack's Blowjob Lessons if you are serious about learning how to give amazing Bj.

It's all about getting yourself in the right spirit and acknowledging your own sexiness. Don't hold back, open up to your own inner dark side. Once you've won that battle it's all about getting your blow job technique down pat.

[blueeyedbeauty]

Well with my previous experience, guys LOVE if you use both your hands on his shaft and just keep your mouth on the head, and like to make it go more smoothly, you can lick his shaft. They freak out about that too I've noticed.

[ManFromHat]

Believe it or not - it all comes down to personality. After a minute of talking you can usually see what kind of an attitude that particular woman might have towards oral sex - and most of the time I am right. All you need to do to become one of these women, so desired, is to aquire the same attitude towards oral sex as they have. Once you do that, everything else is easy. You just need to practice.

Of course, experience itself doesn't mean that a woman knows how to give GREAT head, she might be okay at it, but she might be making the same mistake year after year because no one was there to teach her how to give head properly.

Back to basics. As I've said - the key is to get down the fundamentals.

Funtamental Tip #1

Start enjoying giving head as much as he's probably enjoying receiving it. The more you love it the more he'll love it. Yes, sometimes it's that simple. Fake it till you make it. Over time, once you get better at it, you'll naturally start enjoying ti more once you see the amazing benefits it may have on your relationship/marriage - so over time the need to fake "enjoyment" won't be necessary. You'll naturally love something you're good at. This tip alone will skyrocket your success.

Funtamental Tip #2

Understand that messing up is okay. Not every blow job will be great. No every blow job will end in super-duper pleasure. He won't orgasm every time - and don't expect him to. Get ready for potential failure and be okay with it. It's normal, it's natural. It's not the end of the world if it's not amazing every single time. If you need more advanced tips and tricks. read Jack's Blowjob Lessons. Work on yourself and your skills and you'll become the best he ever had - but don't expect it to be perfect every single time.

[cut_up_story]

eye contact is key! look up at him as you're doing the deed, men are very visual, and it is my understanding that they will be thinking of that image for weeks to come

[Anonymous]

dont' forget the balls!

[Anonymous]

Just be weak, wet, and willing.

Bloody tart.