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How to give good head?

I've only done it once and still have no clue what im doing

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  • A big reason that the male orgasm happens (best) from head is when there is a very steady rhythm stimulating the tip. "Deep throating" is not such a big deal because all that does is simulate the experience of being in the warm wet snug vagina. During intercourse, it is the tip being touched and stimulated that causes excitement and orgasm.

    Keep in mind, all the best BJs are also a bit of a hand job as well so don't be afraid to give your mouth a break.

    And don't forget the balls! They get lonely and are STARVING for female attention. So, sometimes use your fingers or hand such as cupping or teasing testicles or the penis.

    Google "Fellucia Blow" and STUDY those videos. Those women are experts at fellatio and genuinely love it. The sensuous BJ really is best both for the guy and for the woman. Watch and notice how easily they do it yet aren't choking or getting sick. And watch how they switch between mouth and fingers.

    Also, look into videos for:

    A) lingam massage (tantric massage for the male genitalia)
    B) yoni massage (tantric massage for the female genitalia - he should return the favor).

    That said, consider studying good hand-job videos. All you then have to do is imagine doing what the woman is doing with her hands and fingers, but instead replace with lips, tongue, and mouth.
    I'd upload a video, but it is not safe for G@G. PM if you want the links to two such videos.

  • Did the guy orgasm when you did it? If he did then he loved it and you were great. I like it when a girl starts out with a slow handjob and then focuses on the last 1-2 inches while stroking my shaft or cupping my balls. Like wow!!!
    You do not have to deep throat the whole thing like you see on porn videos. Decide ahead of time if you are going to swallow, spit it out or pull out and let him cum elsewhere.
    Have you given handjobs? Guys love them also!!!

    • yeah he did

    • Do you plan on hooking up with him again? Was it his first bj also? How old is he?

    • he's 40

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  • As long as you don't bite it off you're 90% of the way there. Simply use enough suction to keep the pressure on and bob your head so it naturally slides back and forth. Throw in a few tongue swirls, ball tickles etc and it won't belong before you're awarded with sticky tonsils.

    • You're very well experience... You have great future in prostitution business.

  • 1. Avoid using teeth at all cost.
    2. Make eye contact if possible.
    3. Don't be afraid do drop saliva on it, it makes your job easier and is hotter.
    4. Just improving licking, sucking, kissing, and if you can, deep throating.

    Head is not complicated as long as you're not hurting the person and actually putting in the effort.

  • Practice. Take time, lick and suck and feel. It's not a popsicle!

  • PM me, I'll answer any question you have. I'll give you tips and techniques

  • Practice practice practice. Seriously... and avoid porn for info. What they do is for the look not the feel.

  • Lots of spit, stroking, suction, ball play. Don't be afraid to make a mess.

  • even after you 99 time if you know what your doing don't think about it just enjoy what your doing

  • dm me for advice

  • This girl don't even know how to give BJ n dreaming of kings...

    • huh?

  • practice

  • Enthusiasm is important. NO TEETH! Follow his lead... if he's getting into it, do more of what you're doing.

  • Lots of licking balls massage and look into his eyes while sucking him. When he is about to cum suck faster and don’t stop sucking until he’s finished cumming. His penis will stop pulsating when he’s done. Hope this helps.

  • If you’d like practice lol just do what you like and watch and feel how your partner reacts sucking the head and balls is very nice and putting the cock in your mouth as far as you can is a good thing and stroking him while your doing these things helps if your going for full turn on and are into him cumming in your mouth that is always a turn on as well

  • First, you have "want" to do it. The actual actio , Be gentle. Unless told otherwise by him, our junk has thin skin and the nuts can be hurt easily. Always caress the sack, unless you're licking them. Lick, kiss and suck the shaft.
    If you want to see his eyes roll into the back of his skull, lick his nuts and stroke him. Then swallow the fruits of your labor.

  • each guy likes different, ask him to tell you how he likes it

  • Just act like a hoe. Guys love that.

  • Shit, I've been going down on girls for damn near 35yrs and recently found out that's how most girls reach climax! Not once have I made a girl cum from oral. As far as blow jobs, I've never had a bad one and definitely wouldn't complain. She's putting in the effort and that alone is special.

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