How to give head without gagging?

Question

I’ve only tried it a few times but I’m only able to get about an inch in before I start choking. He’s been cool about it but I’m sure he’d prefer if I could perform better - I know I’d like to improve.

Any tips on how to reduce a bad gag-reflex would be greatly appreciated :)

Massageman · Accepted Answer

Other than trying to relax and simply practicing on increasingly large cylindrical objects, you could try a slightly more clinical approach to kill the GR-

1. Squeeze your thumb. Close your left thumb in your left hand and make a fist. Position your thumb under your fingers. Squeeze tightly without causing yourself too much pain.

2. Salt your tongue. Moisten the tip of your finger, dip it into some salt, and touch the salt to your tongue. Salt activates the taste buds on the front of your tongue and sets off a chain reaction that temporarily suppresses your gag reflex.

3. This should be the most effective, for more people, most of the time. Please see a doctor before using any medication though, even OTCs.
Numb your soft palate. When an object touches the soft palate, it can trigger the gag reflex. Use an over-the-counter (OTC) throat-numbing spray such as Chloraseptic to desensitize your soft palate. Alternatively, you could gently apply a topical OTC analgesic with benzocaine using a cotton swab. The effects should last for about an hour, and your palate will be less reactive. Throat-numbing sprays rarely cause side effects. However, you should stop using it if you experience vomiting, nausea, dizziness, drowsiness, and/or stomach cramps.
NOTE: You should avoid the benzocaine remedy entirely if you’re allergic to benzocaine. Ask your doctor or pharmacist about interactions with other OTC medications, vitamins/supplements, or herbal remedies you might be taking before trying this.

4. Number your soft palate #2. Brush the back of your tongue with a toothbrush a couple times a day, until your tongue gets used to the over-stimulation and can relax. Each time you do brush your tongue, move back just a smidgen further. Eventually, your tongue is trained to ignore the irritations that can trigger your GR.

normalice · Accepted Answer

Well, probably the easiest way is to just go tip deep. Thats enough if you use your hands. Just make sure you keep your hands away from the tip.

But by far my favorite way is to let him pin you against the wall and spend a few minutes per day ramming it down your throat. Within a week you'll probably be able to give a normal blow job and within a month you'll be able to deepthroat any time you want.

AmandaYVR · Accepted Answer

I really hope you're not super young. (A good reason not to lie about your age on here.)
Possible reasons:

You're nervous and inexperienced so your gag reflex is pronounced. Eventually you'll relax more.
The angle is not straight. Straighten up.
If you were older I'd say a shot or two of liquor loosens up and relaxes your muscles, which will lessen the effect.
Depends on the size of the guy. More length, more girth = more gagging. You just can't go as deep. But he can still have a good time.
You have to be in control of your position. Forget all this 'he's the dom in charge' b. s. You're in charge. Then you can get the angles, etc. right.
Try practicing brushing your teeth with your toothbrush pressed down hard on the back of your tongue. Some say it desensitizes your gag reflex (though I have not found it works.)

Remember, as long as you're never letting your teeth touch down, there's really no bad blowjobs. Let him guide you with what he likes. Tell him to moan when he likes what you're doing, and be quiet when he doesn't. Easy peasy lemon squeezy. 🍋

shreya_shiry · Accepted Answer

Try to open your throat. I don't know how to explain that but hope you get what I mean

SjE78 · Answer

giving head doesn't necessarily mean you need to go down deep, you can focus on the head, and also use your hand as a guide to how far down you can comfortably go... but practice actually helps, an ex girlfriend of mine used to gag on me or not realise that she didn't need to go all the way down, but when she realised, she found it helped her to enjoy it also... and that improved the overall experience for us both...

TeeSquare · Answer

Some have more gag reflex than others. Some have no gag reflex at all. With practice you can overcome the reflex. Start with smaller things. Like hot dog for example. Work up in size as each size gets easier. It took me a while but can deepthroat the largest of dicks now without any issues at all, length or width.

justaguy5612 · Answer

Honestly, too many girls focus on the deep throat aspect when you can give so much pleasure just licking and sucking on the top or shaft. Also focus on the spot just under the tip as it is the most sensitive. If you want to simulate deep throat without actually doing it, wrap your hand around the base of the cock and only suck on the end while you bob up and down. Really any method or situation where a girls mouth is on my cock is a pleasurable one.

naraku · Answer

Practice by yourself.

Try sucking on your own finger, it doesn't have to be sexual.

If you find that ok, try moving onto something like a small cucumber or banana. As you get more used to it you can probably start sucking him better.
If not , just place your mouth over the head and lick and such that while jerking him. that should still be good.

Jamie05rhs · Answer

If you can't put it straight in, then just suck on the side of it.

DreamCatchcer · Answer

As long as you stroke the shaft and pay attention to his scrotum, most guys would be satisfied.

Cowboy6666 · Answer

well you need to do a practice session with me ;) I will solve that problem ;)

Valnac · Answer

Just lick the tip, and play with his balls.

rullysyske · Answer

Oh my god, that is so sad. One of my exes was like this, and the only way she improved was because I forced my cock further down her throat on a regular basis. You'll have to give him total control if you want to get better.