How to Give him an AMAZING Oral Sex Experience!

If you're looking for ways to really melt his bomb pop this summer then look no farther! Keep these five things in mind when going down on him and he'll be dripping in no time...

How to Give him an AMAZING Blowjob Experience!
1. Attitude

Your attitude during a blowjob is arguably the most important part of the experience for him! If you're not really into it he WILL pick up on that. Do not be shy to show some enthusiasm while doing it, showing him that you're having a good time too makes it easier for him to relax and enjoy himself, not to mention it's a major turn on! It shows that you're really into him (or really into giving oral). Easy ways to show him you're enjoying it are to look up at him while you're down there, smile at him when you take a quick break, and moan while you're doing your thing to him!

2. Talk dirty

Another effortless way to improve the experience for him is to talk dirty! Relax and be naughty for him. Before you go south ask if he wants you to blow him in a seductive way. Kiss or lick just above his penis and ask if he wants you to do it to him. While you're blowing him take a break for a few seconds, look up to him, and say something dirty about how you love to do this to him, how you're turned on right now, something descriptive about his member (i.e. "it's so hard"), or anything else dirty that you know would turn him on. You don't have to go too far out of your comfort zone to do this, if you're comfortable saying slang words for penis then go ahead but if not you can just say "it". Get creative and be descriptive.

How to Give him an AMAZING Oral Sex Experience!

3. Technique

There is no universal technique that works for every guy. The trick here is to experiment a little and find what your guy likes best. You can ask him to tell you when he really likes something or just use his reactions to judge what techniques really get him going. Some guys prefer you to use hands and some do not. Most guys will love if you use your hands to gently massage his testicles while you're blowing him or even if you use your mouth on them to kiss, lick, or gently suck on them.

Some people are comfortable deep throating and others are not. If you would like to try it but are not sure how, it just takes practice! It's easiest to do when there is a lot of saliva present. Some say that squeezing their left thumb while attempting to deep throat a guy works really well. The thumb trick is to only distract you from gaging but it's worth trying. If you're not comfortable doing this then use your hand to grip the base of him and use your mouth on the top half or just the tip of his penis. Have fun, play around, and find what works him. Don't be afraid to kiss, lick, suck, touch, and stroke around down there!

4. Hands on

Like mentioned in #3 some guys prefer you use your hands during a blowjob along with your mouth, and other only want the mouth action. If he prefers you use hands then stroke him while you suck, find the right rhythm so your hands and mouth are moving smoothly together. However, #4 is not talking about where your hands are but where HIS are! If he places his hands on your head let him keep them there, if you're comfortable enough let him guide your head with his hands, you'll find that it actually makes it easier for you!

How to Give him an AMAZING Oral Sex Experience!

If you're afraid he's going to push you too far for comfort then place your hand around his penis, this allows you to set the limit for how far down he can guide you. If his hands are not on your head, but you don't mind them being there, then grab his hands and place them on your head while you're blowing him. He'll love it whether he just places them there or decides to use them!

5. Swallow

If you really want to blow his mind you're going to want to go out with a bang! First, let him finish in your mouth, it is a great sensation to a man. Second, majority of men will love for you to swallow them, and this can be a pretty intimate experience, especially for couples. Not to mention it makes for a much easier clean up. If you're nervous about swallowing but would like to try it the best method is to take his member as far back in your mouth as possible while he's finishing, this way you don't taste much and it goes down much easier. Swallowing will leave the majority of guys stunned, even if the actual blowjob wasn't that great, an ending like that is sure to blow him away!

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  • Gonna add some of my own opinions as well on technique. Things I've noticed with girls and that I'd like to change...

    1) Deep throating and shaft sucking. This is more of a porno thing I guess to me because the problem here is that the shaft isn't very sensitive at all. Like, they're sucking back and forth but only below the head and it's like, yeah I don't feel a thing...

    2) Pulling the foreskin too far. Foreskins have different lengths and sizes and some girl pull the foreskin way too far back. Sometimes when teasing, and sometimes towards the end when they pick up the speed. That just stings.

    3) Playing with the peehole, like with the tongue, is unpleasant...

    4) The best handjob I've ever had was when a girl pulled off the condom, spit on my penis, and then had this kinda soap-squeezing technique. Like, she wasn't just going up and down, but she kinda slid-squeezed it like if you imagine holding arms straight in front of you, hold a wet soap, now shoot the soap down to the ground. To do it, you kinda have to do some kind of weird squeezing motion to get it to slide. That's the kind of technique she had. Was great actually.

    • Nice add on's, I didn't think about foreskin! As for deep throating every guy has his own preference on it, but when done correctly the tip of the penis should actually be going down the throat which is a lot smoother part of the mouth and puts a lot of suction around it especially when retracting the mouth.

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  • nice post!

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  • I clicked only because I saw ice cream, I'm disappointed. :'(

    • Sureeee that's what they all say.

  • lol I've done research on this and it basically says the same thing as this take does but thank you for ectually going into better detail

  • Nicely done. Although I disagree with #2. A quick comment once or twice is ok but I hate when a woman wants to get "chatty" because it distracts from the experience. The key is every guy is different so be ok with taking direction or better yet, ask. I hate deep throat. I never feel any difference. i think people see it in porn and think it is a turn on. I hate for her to chock when it means nothing to me.

  • most guys prefer me to place my hands behind my back or for me to hold onto my heels, that way the guy is in control and he can go as deep as he chooses

  • Great myTake! Well done.

  • I agree with this <3

    • I think the biggest thing is to be confident and FEEL sexy doing it

  • I want one if those popsicles 😣

  • If only my ex could have read this.

  • https://reaction.club/r/5927b58.gif
    Eww gross. Why would anyone want to put a penis into their mouth?

    I feel sorry for women...

  • well hot damn!
    great take

    • you prefer receiving over giving?

    • @asewerw I def love receiving, but I like giving because it makes her wet and moan like crazy mm👅💦💦

    • Which one makes you cum is what you prefer. Lol. Do you go down on one night stands?

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  • This gave me some helpful advice for me to use with my boyfriend :D

    • Great to hear! I had both guys and girls in mind when writing. :)

  • Personally, I'm not someone who favors oral sex. I prefer footjobs, they get me all hard and horny, especially if the feet are big.

  • sounds like you could give an awesome blow job. you seem to know your stuff. great my take.

  • yessss, i approve of this.

  • 6. The hot and cold method.. like put a ice cube in your mouth.

    When my ex did that, it blew my mind! Nutted sooo fast!

  • Seems like you are good at oral sex. I like women who does great oral sex. :)

  • im just suprised women care about the male experience

  • Oh damn i already enjoyed. Great mytake!

  • Honestly, I like pussy licking more than BJ. I don't know why but it is.

    • You are not alone. I am also a giver. I mean, I like them both, but I prefer giving to receiving.

    • @JuicyBrain would you still prefer it over bj if she didn't come form it?

    • @asewerw yes. I love the taste, the texture, the feedback... I love it! Of course, I would prefer if I could send her over the edge, but I would love it nonetheless.

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  • who doesn't want it :)

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