How to give him the best orgasm from oral?

[Anonymous]

I'm going over to my boyfriends tonight which usually would mean sex, but I'm on my period. We only just started having sex a few weeks ago so this is the first time I've been on my period and this has come up. I don't know how he feels, but I'm not really comfortable with having sex while I'm on my period. I'm usually really horny though and any time I give him a blowjob it really gets me going. Tonight when we're together I want to give him the most amazing blow job ever. I want him to be speechless and I want to hear him breathing heavy and hear him moan. What are some tips on how to achieve that?

[Anonymous]

Well, don't ASSUME that he doesn't want sex on your period. Just discuss it with him.

As for BJs, every guy is different, but IMO the best BJs last about 10 minutes. If he hasn't orgasmed that day, I think it's likely that you'll be able to make him orgasm in a couple of minutes. But, when it comes to pleasing a man, making him orgasm fast is never the aim. So, try to delay his orgasms. Notice when he's about to orgasm, and take him back from the brink. When he does eventually orgasm, it will feel even more intense for him.There's a benefit in this for you too: getting him used to delayed orgasms will make him last longer when he has sex with you. Also DON'T use your teeth. Use your tongue, your lips and the inside of your mouth. Pay attention to every part of his penis and to his balls. Change from fast to slow and back again. Don't fake enjoyment. But, if you feel like moaning or talking dirty, do it. It's such a turn-on for a guy to know that the girl is enjoying his penis. Make eye-contact with him. Swallow his semen.

Also, there are many different BJ positions. I'm sure you'll be able to find an extensive list on the Internet. But some examples: he lies on his back; he stands up, and you are on your knees; you're on your back, and he positions his penis aiming at your face.

[blackkid2]

Okay, first let me insert the "Every guy is different!" plug. It's true.

So generic tips based on human physiology incorporate things like holding pressure ( firm sucking ), full insertion ( deep throating ) , wetness, and speed variation. Then there's control ( him sexing your mouth ), massage ( testicles, area above penis, chest, nipples, inner thighs and any other nerve ganglia ), prostate and anus ( not something to surprise people with really ), and sensory elements ( hearing you, seeing you, feeling you OR deprivation of sight [blindfolding], sound, and touch [handcuffing, restraint] ) are all effective.

Olfactory senses can be stimulated but it's kind of interesting how it works; the human scent is attractive to those who who are attracted and subconsciously fires up the brain's horny center so in turn a quick way to incorporate it "seamlessly" would be to use your shirt as a blindfold flooding one sense and depriving another.

I don't recommend taste this time. >_>

[lauramor]

Massage his balls and don't just suck h, move your hands too

[dudeman]

use your butthole

[Anonymous]

Do it somewhere risky of getting caught

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you have given this a lot of though, and with your atitude I'm sure your boyfriend will be very pleased with whatever you do. I'm betting that there a lot guys reading your question and thinking "I wish my girfriend was like this".

Let us know how it goes.

[Anonymous]

keep going with the hand, regular rhythem, on and on, don't be afraid to grip kinda tight.

With the other hand soft touches below are cool too (though beware of the butthole. There danger lies).