Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I am Professor. Zee. I will be covering Oral Sex 101, in this section I will introduce the basics of giving oral sex to a man. Please, don't have things misconstrued, anyone can wrap their lips around a cock. But what separates an artist from a regular painter, is pure want and passion. How many of you can work a penis like a stripper would a pole?
By the end of this class, I will instill knowledge in you, that will give you a boost to be on your way to do just that.
The Warm Up
Have you ever been immediately able to separate those who are enthusiastic about the actions they perform from those who are not? For example, take a police officer for instance, there's plenty of them around but what makes one stand out to you, is the one that does his job effectively. You can tell this officer is different from most because he has a passion for his job. He likes what he does.
So class, when you're about to give oral it's important for it to be:
A) Something you want to do.
Not something your partner pressures or forces you to perform by persuasion.
If you aren't enthusiatic about the idea, it will show!
It will either be "just another blow job" that he has gotten or not a good one at all.
B) Make sure you relax.
When you do the rest will come naturally, like a rapper to a beat you will freestyle on his penis and do things out of pure passion.
You may even surprise yourself!
Those two tips are the most important of all. If you have passion, that means you have devotion, this will allow you to build on knowledge that you already have.
Techniques for Beginners
A) No teeth.
The feeling of teeth can be rather painful and uncomfortable. Make sure you enlongate your lips, over your teeth while performing oral. Your mouth should look like the letter "O", wrap your lips tightly around his penis.
The tighter you wrap it the better, you want it to feel like a glove.
The tight, wet, moist environment feels similar to the cavity of a vagina, this is why giving oral sex can be one of the best sensations for a man.
B) Make it nice and wet.
If your mouth is dry, take as much of his penis down your throat as you can. This will make the saliva come up from your throat, and allow him to be drenched in wetness.
The wetter the better, make it hot and nasty!
C) Focus on his head.
The tip of his head is one of the most sensitive parts, make sure you twirl your tongue around it.
If he is uncircumcised, gently push his skin back exposing his head.
D) Lick up and down his shaft.
Stick your tongue out and lick up and down his shaft.
This is one of the main parts where enthusiasm comes into play.
Allow yourself to be free and fully enjoy your guy.
Don't put so much thought into what you do.
When your mind steps outside of its safe shell, you may even find yourself moaning,
while you look into his eyes and lick his member.
The moaning is a turn on, because this shows you aren't just robotic, you're actually enjoying giving oral.
This is important because one feeling genuinely desired adds to arousal.
E) Deepthroat.
With practice you will get better. You don't have to deepthroat throughout the entire oral session but do it as much as you can. If you can't take him all, allow the inches you can take, to fill your mouth up. When you feel like you about about to gag stop briefly, if you find that you cannot continue, mix up your routine (by doing techniques C or D). When you feel you are at ease, start deepthroating once again. Challenge yourself, see if you can do it longer.
F) Your hands aren't just an accessory.
Use your hands. While you are sucking him, massage his balls for an added sensation.
If you're willing to be nasty, after massaging his balls, start gently sucking them.
I personally love to use my hands to jerk him off, while sucking his balls, for an added sensation.
You'll find yourself going back and forth between different techniques.
When you do, remember always make occasional eye contact, his reaction works as feedback to tell you if he is enjoying what you are doing.
There's so much more things not mentioned that can be introduced into the world of giving oral.
You will discover them on your own, as you explore your lover.
You may even get creative and add tricks of your own.
Eventually, you will develop your own technique, and not need a guideline.
Questions or comments anyone?
Class is out of session.
What Girls & Guys Said
20 35Some like a finger in their bum to don’t they? How would I know he does?
"Work a penis like a stripper would a pole"
I'm using that line
Great Take but nothing I didn't already know.
Of course :) this is the beauty of experience
Thanks. lol hahha
I'm so glad your wrote this. I see girls keep asking this question on here. I hope they find this and take notes.
Lol... great take, depresses me, many guys especially in gag wouldn't know. It's like explaining an awesome snow fight to a person who lives in a dessert. you would of needed several blow jobs from several different women to actually start knowing what is best or not. Again, another reason why men must bed a lot of women.
Same thing with oral for girls.
@KawaiiPie67 in what way? If men have to bed a lot of women to good with oral on women then I fully agree. But a girl doesn't have to give many men bj's to be good at a bj. Men get off so easily. But that's not to say I am one of those guys who believe men can play and women need to behave. I am always looking for the bad girls with a colourful sex life. Just saying.
I meant women need to have experience with guys to know what receiving good oral is like too.
@KawaiiPie67 true. Fully agree. That's why men who sleep around are better sexually than those who don't.
Well, I wouldn't say that. i can't get off from penetration myself. An inexperienced guy who who was willing to work with me, would be way better than a really experienced guy who wanted fucking all the time.
@KawaiiPie67 you women don't give inexperienced guys a chance to begin with. He is inexperienced for a reason. The one dire mistake most of you women make when it comes to relationship and sex advice is that your ideals (which is good) isn't what attracts you. So you will say all this stuff, but when the moment comes, the experienced guy will attract you.
Most of the virgin guys R really shy and don't know how 2 flirt. I don't see how U can blame girls for that.
@KawaiiPie67 well look I don't blame women for that (the Virgin thing) but many women leave their guys or won't date a man who is boring or inexperienced. What I'm really saying is that women advice says you want x and y, but the reality is much different.
if U think so. I wouldn't be able to tell an inexperienced guy from an experienced one performing, as long as he was social.
Why would ANYONE want to date someone who is shy, clueless and boring? Why are you having a go at women for not wanting to be with someone like this? It's just ridiculous. No one would want to be with someone like this. Someone who is outgoing, fun, yet inexperienced is fine, because they have a great personality. But someone who has nothing but negatives is not appealing in the slightest, and there is nothing wrong with thinking that.
@GhostOnToast I'm not having a go at women, damn! it's just how it goes and you are right, why would anyone want to go for boring and clueless. But here is the catch... how does a man undo his boringness and cluelessness? Those traits result in his inexperience. he needs to change who he is and get playing. That's just how it has to go.
Haha now I'll know what to do when I do it for the first time. Thanks. 👌
Weird part is I already pretty much knew most of this.
Maybe I need to give less head.
start with a kiss then lick head, suck head with lips and then deepthroat, i would say BJ after discharge-guys love to get BJ after discharge
A lot of information for one lecture, you'd do better to split it into a 4 week course with seminars and practice :D
Wang, hammer, suck stick, meat,😃
I enjoy teeth dont like when I'm looked at during oral... I think it psychological. The deep throat this I'm indifferent about it. People throaking in sex if quite a turnoff plus her face becomes red and veiny not my type of thing seems like I'm hurting more than pleasuring, I like when during the sex a tear or two comes to her eyes I hate seeing a tear after deep throat.
Teeth as in a light nibbling on foreskin perhaps? But I am sure you don't like to be scratched up by it right?
Not the foreskin a light nibble on the head or lightly coming up from the base it gives an undescribable sensation!!! Love those
Also ladies don't be too rough, it can actually be too much
I'm a middle aged white male I've been with 5 women my current one over 20 years, oral sex is mostly initiated by me a I like treating her pussy, she doesn't like giving oral sex she doesn't want sperm in her mouth or on her just inside jwr pussy, so it's hard for me to watch images of women who like to treat there men in that way, should I feel there's something wrong with me?
Do you think she's like this because of her age? My mom is older around your age (or a few years older) and she can't believe half of the things I do sexually. She thinks giving oral sex is gross and disrespectful
Although there are exceptions. Some older women are open about these things. I really think this view has to do with environment , culture and exposure as well.
My mate seems to feel resentful about doing oral sex & her teeth hurt some it seems she just wants to get it over with so I don't ask her, it's great yu and your mom are so close.
Have you ever gotten oral from someone who enjoyed giving it?
No I don't remember? May I ask do women like receiving oral?
You must have been married for a very long time to not remember. Yes , I do at least especially when the guy knows what he's doing. I can't speak for all however.
I'm a keeper I guess she's not into the oral thing much I prefer 69 but she can't concentrate she trying a couple times and got angry with me, she helps me find the right spot☆
I want to show this to my girlfriend but she will probably smack me if i did
Yeah, don't do that. But if you want her to try something, just tell her. When she's down there, say "Hey, would you try (blank)?" That's a constructive, tactful way to let her know what you want.
@samhradh_leannan she never goes down there
Have you asked her to?
@samhradh_leannan yes and she says no
I guess that's a situation where you just have to decide if oral is something you're willing to live without, or it you need to find a more compatible partner.
IM GUESSING YOUR ONE OF THE FEW GIRLS THAT ARE ACTUALLY GOOD AT GIVING HEAD
Bad Head? Lol
@WhyLieHonestGuy lol they try bro they try
Just reading your take was enough for me. lol
Amen
You should do a take on techniques for beginners female male version
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a25276-how-to-give-oral-to-your-woman-101
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thanks
She has a take for everything bro!
@Skeye89 i see
This is all really good advice. I just wish my girlfriend would read this and actually put some effort in.
Try talking to her. Ask her if it's something she actually enjoys doing, so you can get an idea of where she's coming from. Ask her if there's anything YOU can do to make it more comfortable or enjoyable for her. Making a simple change might help her be more enthusiastic, plus, just starting the conversation will get her to think about it more. Asking if it could be a better experience for HER is an extremely tactful and considerate way to get the ball rolling and express the idea that maybe things could improve for both of you. Are you appreciative of her efforts? Do you praise her? If she feels unsure about whether you like or appreciate what she's doing, she's probably going to be way less enthusiastic.
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Interesting mytake, there are some things you missed on and some things that we don't really care about, like licking the shaft doesn't do much for me or deepthroat isn't necessary either, you can gently suck on the balls or lightly massage them or just hold them while sucking. The thing I like the best and hard to find girls that will do it is when they keep on sucking while I'm cumming and swallow it or at least hold it until I'm done then let it out and then suck on it some more until I'm completely empty. That's the best Bjs I've ever have had, just hard to find girls that do that. You need to make another take on the completion of the blow job and see where that goes😊
Yes, this is just a beginners outline. This is why I put it is important to pay close attention to your partners reaction. Some guys have claimed the shaft licking drives them nuts here. As for swallowing , that's a personal preference not every woman is into , so they'll definitely have to determine if that is what they want or not. I personally swallow because I feel it creates more intimacy in the act. Thanks for answering !
I think I need to take this class again... and again... and again