Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
I am Professor. Zee. I will be covering Oral Sex 101, in this section I will introduce the basics of giving oral sex to a man. Please, don't have things misconstrued, anyone can wrap their lips around a cock. But what separates an artist from a regular painter, is pure want and passion. How many of you can work a penis like a stripper would a pole?
By the end of this class, I will instill knowledge in you, that will give you a boost to be on your way to do just that.
The Warm Up
Have you ever been immediately able to separate those who are enthusiastic about the actions they perform from those who are not? For example, take a police officer for instance, there's plenty of them around but what makes one stand out to you, is the one that does his job effectively. You can tell this officer is different from most because he has a passion for his job. He likes what he does.
So class, when you're about to give oral it's important for it to be:
A) Something you want to do.
Not something your partner pressures or forces you to perform by persuasion.
If you aren't enthusiatic about the idea, it will show!
It will either be "just another blow job" that he has gotten or not a good one at all.
B) Make sure you relax.
When you do the rest will come naturally, like a rapper to a beat you will freestyle on his penis and do things out of pure passion.
You may even surprise yourself!
Those two tips are the most important of all. If you have passion, that means you have devotion, this will allow you to build on knowledge that you already have.
Techniques for Beginners
A) No teeth.
The feeling of teeth can be rather painful and uncomfortable. Make sure you enlongate your lips, over your teeth while performing oral. Your mouth should look like the letter "O", wrap your lips tightly around his penis.
The tighter you wrap it the better, you want it to feel like a glove.
The tight, wet, moist environment feels similar to the cavity of a vagina, this is why giving oral sex can be one of the best sensations for a man.
B) Make it nice and wet.
If your mouth is dry, take as much of his penis down your throat as you can. This will make the saliva come up from your throat, and allow him to be drenched in wetness.
The wetter the better, make it hot and nasty!
C) Focus on his head.
The tip of his head is one of the most sensitive parts, make sure you twirl your tongue around it.
If he is uncircumcised, gently push his skin back exposing his head.
D) Lick up and down his shaft.
Stick your tongue out and lick up and down his shaft.
This is one of the main parts where enthusiasm comes into play.
Allow yourself to be free and fully enjoy your guy.
Don't put so much thought into what you do.
When your mind steps outside of its safe shell, you may even find yourself moaning,
while you look into his eyes and lick his member.
The moaning is a turn on, because this shows you aren't just robotic, you're actually enjoying giving oral.
This is important because one feeling genuinely desired adds to arousal.
E) Deepthroat.
With practice you will get better. You don't have to deepthroat throughout the entire oral session but do it as much as you can. If you can't take him all, allow the inches you can take, to fill your mouth up. When you feel like you about about to gag stop briefly, if you find that you cannot continue, mix up your routine (by doing techniques C or D). When you feel you are at ease, start deepthroating once again. Challenge yourself, see if you can do it longer.
F) Your hands aren't just an accessory.
Use your hands. While you are sucking him, massage his balls for an added sensation.
If you're willing to be nasty, after massaging his balls, start gently sucking them.
I personally love to use my hands to jerk him off, while sucking his balls, for an added sensation.
You'll find yourself going back and forth between different techniques.
When you do, remember always make occasional eye contact, his reaction works as feedback to tell you if he is enjoying what you are doing.
There's so much more things not mentioned that can be introduced into the world of giving oral.
You will discover them on your own, as you explore your lover.
You may even get creative and add tricks of your own.
Eventually, you will develop your own technique, and not need a guideline.
Questions or comments anyone?
Class is out of session.
What Girls & Guys Said
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Yes we do ;)
I agree with most, but I disagree with F, she can use her hands but she'd better not lick or even touch my balls. Girls think because they are sensitive they should touch them, but they aren't sensitive in that way, they're sensitive in a painful way.
So in other words I should just ask my guy if he likes it when I lick his balls? Not even to give a light massage?
Yeah best ask him first before even touching them
I will never deepthroat :/ I just don't enjoy the feeling of gagging or choking.
It's not about you... lol
@Mybeachlife88 I wouldn't want my man to do something to me that makes him physically uncomfortable even if I found it enjoyable. In the end his discomfort would just turn me off and make me feel bad. So I expect the same respect in return. And yes I feel like it's partially at least about me and my comfort because I'M the one going down on him. I enjoy giving head as long as I don't feel like I can't breathe or as if I'm about to throw up. Deal with it.
@Mybeachlife88 hahahaha, quite right
@TimeSplitters123 she's just blah... lol. she doesn't get it, it's your MAN, YOU'RE supposed to want to do everything for him. He's going to desire other women at some point.
Well if he goes on to desire other women then that's nothing to do with how a blow job is given, fs questions like this bring the perverts out en masse... to the girl don't do anything you're not comfortable with.. if you don't like it don't do it..
@Mybeachlife88 if he's going to "desire other women at some point" JUST because i refuse to choke on his dick then good riddance, don't need a fuckboy like that anyway. Like I said I'm more than happy to give head and will do it enthusiastically as long as it doesn't make me feel ill. I can't help that this is the way I feel. I have a phobia of vomiting and gagging and I don't understand why you guys have such an issue with some girls not wanting to deepthroat. Get a grip and grow up. @Brokenheartedx thank you for understanding me.
@Mybeachlife88 and I could use that same logic against you. He's MY MAN so he's supposed to do everything I want him to do. What if I wanted to shove 2 dildos up his ass while I hang him upside down from the ceiling with hooks? What if I want to strap him down and choke him and waterboard him because it turns me on? It doesn't make any sense. People should only do what they're comfortable with doing. If he wants more out of me sexually than I'm able to give him then he should just break up with me, not resort to cheating. Only cowards and fuckboys do shit like that and like I said, good riddance. Not man enough to just be honest with me.
Thid is not true I give great head you don't need to deep throat if you're exspierenced enough you can suck and close far back in your throat which gives the same sensation and even if I didn't do that I've never lost a boyfriend over head or been cheated on this guy sounds selfish and rude and has no respect for women choke on a dildo
@Mybeachlife88 I don;t blame her.
It makes me sad that I'm too short and thin to experience being deep throated...
If your partner can take your whole penis in your mouth, you're probably getting a more intense experience than someone with a longer penis whose partner can't deep throat. Look at it that way.
I gave a guy head for the first time last week. It was my first time, and he knew that we had been talking a while. Well we got to it, and when he was done, which I swallowed all of it. He said, I don't believe this is your first time.
Nice Swallowing for your 1st blow job ☆☆☆☆☆
Impressive!!! Why are you anonymous damnnit lol
I thought it was fun, and would definitely do it again. Swallowing is not bad like others make it out to be!
@wethepeople87 Eh, I swallowed on my first and I was only in grade school. Ain't that big of a deal considering he did the same.
😍😍😍 omg just stop lol
I actually do all these things with love the only thing I refuse to do is eat the cum not for me lol but this is good for beginners or girls who don't have a talkative man. It helps when guys say what they want too, because this post mentions no teeth my boyfriend asks for me to bite down sometimes everyone's different. Also when he says he's about to cum you can slow down and switch it up if you want it to last longer for him and give him a better O :)
This is great
once a guy has learnt to suck one guy, she knows how to suck em all. you can be a master at sucking a woman and then go to the next with the same tricks and she kicks you in the face.
Splendid babe.. i second this
Good take. I never gave a blowjob before but doesn't the dick taste gross?
Only if the guy does not clean himself properly. It really does not have a taste, the only thing that does is his pre cum and cum .
You might want to add for the shaft part that the side of the shaft that is facing away from his body is the most sensitive part of the shaft right under the head
Good take. However I would disagree with the statement wetter is better. :)
I don't know how much experience you have judging by your age. Are you telling me you like a dry mouth on you?
Im 17 and have some experience on the matter. I dont agree that its should deliberately made wet, because it gets very wet in the process anyway.
Not always, some people have drier mouths than others this is why there are techniques to aid in the process.
Im not sold
Great post and you have some really good tips! Are you going to do the same thing for giving women oral? If not please do :)
I'll definitely consider it :)
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a25276-how-to-give-oral-to-your-woman-101
It's always difficult writing from a male perspective! But I tried :)
Thanks! It will hopefully help some guys who are looking to improve