Sexual Relationships 
Sexual Health 
Welcome back, students! Please, everyone have a seat. So earlier today, we introduced the topic of giving oral sex to your man. In the second portion of this class, I will introduce the basics of giving oral sex to a woman. Before I go into depths on this topic, I am going to ask, "What are the two key components one needs to give good oral sex?"
Yes, you are correct passion and devotion, as previously mentioned in our last discussion.
If you do not have both of those key components, you most likely will deliver bland oral sex.
What happens when something is bland?
You tend to not want to go back for more.
You are left discontented.
The Warm Up
Before proceeding with oral, it is important that you make sure it is:
A) Something you want to do.
If you have no interest in giving oral sex to your girl, then it will show in your performance. You will most likely be tensed and inhibited. When you really want to do something, it shows, this will further excite your partner. Remember, the feeling of being desired is a big turn on for your lover. This adds to the enjoyment.
B) Something you can relax while doing.
I know it may be nerve-racking giving oral sex if it is your first time; even if it isn't, perhaps it's your first time with this girl and you want to make sure everything goes perfect. People tend to be their own worse critics. I advise you to not think about everything that can go wrong, instead think of everything that can go right. Just take a deep breath, and relax.
Techniques For Beginners
Let your lady lay down on her back. Gently spread her legs a part. The wider the better because now you have a perfect entrance. Every pussy is different so take a moment to really look at and observe it. The want and the urge is there, your goal is to build on the intensity.
Before you even have the thought of oral sex in your mind,
I advise that you do not have long fingernails or stubble beards.
Some men like to finger during the course of giving oral sex, if you choose to do so please make sure your finger nails are low. Long fingernails can be extremely painful.
Also, stubble beards may scratch your lover (this can cause irritation to develop). If you have no facial hair or you have a beard that is longer than a few inches, then you are in the clear!
A) Tease. Start by appreciating her thighs, gently kiss them. Suck on the labia majora (outer lips), gently putting it inside of your mouth.
B) Lick it. Lick around the hole. Stick your tongue out, slowly and gently lick inside of her hole.
Remember you are building on temptation, you want to have her fairly wet in the beginning.
C) Speed. You're going to start things off slow and sensual, gradually picking up the pace. When you do, you may want to tongue fuck her fast and hard.
D) Don't neglect her clit. This is one of the most sensitive areas on a woman. As you continue to play around and tease her, this is where you will give some of your well divided attention to.
As you proceed with the act of oral, you will also find that this area will grow increasingly sensitive. Please, be very gentle. Sucking with too much force, when this area is highly sensitive can be very uncomfortable and painful.
E) Use your fingers.
You will find that it is hard for your lady to keep still, this is because of the intensity. Use your hands to guide her back into the position she started in. Spread her legs open. Occasionally, stop and finger her, you can even use them, to gently rub her clit.
F) Focus on her reaction.
Listen to her moans, they tell you what climax she's reaching. While giving oral, listen carefully to her sounds, this will work as communication to tell you what it is she really likes. If you notice her moaning pitches a certain way, continue to do that action. Don't stop!
Remember, sex is a learning experience each and every partner is different. You'll eventually find out what your girl likes and exactly how she wants it done. You may even find yourself going back and forth between the techniques I mentioned, mixing them up. Don't forget, her body is speaking to you, that means you have to be a good listener! The more you give oral, the more second nature things will come to you. You may even start things off in a completely different way, but one thing that remains the same is the areas of focus.
Questions or comments anyone?
Class is dismissed!
See you next week!
What Girls & Guys Said
12 32Thank you for writing the male counter part! Hopefully this will help some of the guys out there who need it.
cool might use that shit when i'm 40 and marry. i might compansate for the small penis... .