How to give the best blowjob?

Guys, I was wondering how to give the best blow job? Besides being enthusiastic about it, how do I make him cum as fast as possible but also have the best time of his life? And girls, what do guys respond to the best?
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Most Helpful Girl

  • I will try to answer your question from a different angle, in case you may find it interesting and useful. I am a gay man; I love giving blowjobs and sucked the cocks of countless men.

    Here are a few suggestions in pleasuring your boyfriend:

    1) Start licking the tip of his cock first, then slowly engulf it in your mouth.
    2) Definitely refrain from using your teeth. Make sure you use your lips the whole time.
    3) While sucking him in and out of your mouth, also use your tongue for extra stimulation. If you run your tongue around the perimeter of his cock while sucking it, you can make your man go wild.
    4) How big is your boyfriend's cock? Even if it may be big, you can still get its entire length into your mouth. After a few trials, see if you can take his cock down your throat, then you can accommodate any length that way. I have been able to take 8-9 inches long and really thick cocks into my mouth completely, as when my man starts fucking my throat, any size cock becomes manageable.
    5) I also often watch my man as I suck his cock. Guys love looking into the eyes of their lovers as they get sucked.
    6) You can often tell that your man is about to cum by his body movements and breathing, as his body and cock become very tense just before cumming.
    7) And, finally, I strongly recommend swallowing his entire cum, as that makes the experience complete. I love the taste of newly ejaculated warm cum in my mouth and down my throat. I could reach orgasm myself just having my man cum in my mouth.

    Let me know if you have other questions, or PM me if you wish.

    Good luck!

Most Helpful Guy

  • Usually the combination of hands stroking the shaft all the way down to the balls and back up again to the head (or even over a bit), while at the same time sucking downward and upward to follow your hands, that's probably the BEST form. Also, if you put a twist with your hands around the head of the cock using your saliva as the lubricant, we get that intense tickle, kind of like when you get a tongue or your clit rubbed, and then back down the shaft with your mouth again and then back up, twist, then down again... But as you do this, slow at first, maybe teasing with your tongue on the head and shaft, making it all wet and lubed. Then start going a little faster, pausing to tease a bit in between the same way, maybe licking/sucking the balls and his taint, then back to the stroke/suck/twist routine. Faster and faster and then all you have to do is keep sucking on just the head while stroking the shaft or just stroke the hell out of the cock, all of it, or just do the twisting action vigorously. Fuck I think I almost came describing all of this... ;)

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  • Look I can give you the recipe for the perfect bj, but why do u want to make him cum as fast as possible?

  • It helps if you yourself enjoy it. If it seems like it's a chore, that's a turnoff. Watch some porn. They're often pretty good at it...

  • you won't be able to.

  • A blow job is not passionate sex. It's nurturing sexual therapy; understanding what kind, where and when a man's penis needs attention. Start with a nipples to knees erotic massage to get him aroused and hard. Then combine bobbing, sucking and tongue swirling the head to just below the ridge and valley at the back of the head with synchronised hand stroking of the shaft. Progress toward orgasm during a blowjob is like climbing a down escalator. You have to maintain a momentum that builds arousal without stopping or pausing, because he will "lose ground" if you dont. When you are going for the finish, use maximum intensity at the head and stroke his shaft as fast as you can with a moderate grip. When he starts to ejaculate, stop all mouth motion and just suck. If you have a gag reflex, roll your tongue to keep the shot at the front of your mouth. Ease back on hand stroking to coax out the remaining squirts while straight sucking. Continue to suck gently until he unplugs. The whole process shouldn't last more than 10 minutes. There is nothing a girl can do that can make a guy feel more loved than giving him a patient, skilled blowjob. He will feel spent and grateful and you can feel pride in a (blow). job well done.

  • Bad is, well, at first even refusing to do it at all. But bad is also not doing it the way we ask you to do it, not using your hands while doing it (or on the opposite, using hands if we ask you not to) or having a non-firm grip so we don't feel anything.

    Good is actually SUCKING. Not really really damn hard because that can hurt after a while, but you have to actually suck, and sometimes girls won't. Make sure to keep your mouth as tight as possible the entire time you're doing it. If you have one hand free while you're sucking, gently caress his balls while you're doing it, just like a light touch, nothing rough. Also when sucking, take us as deep as you reasonably can without hurting yourself (unless you actually want to gag a bit, which most of us won't mind). And good is 100% drinking us without complaint when we can't take any more. Good girls swallow. Good luck.

  • Remember not to ignore his balls, to use your hands as well, and to suck properly so that your cheeks rub on his dick. And not just your lips and tongue

    • Oh, and let him cum wherever he wants. Will probably be your face, in your mouth or on your chest.

  • Finger in his ass...

    • Lol, I'm sure that'll work, 100%

  • Just suck hard and rub your tongue under the head a lot... and choke yourself with it a few times...

  • it's not good to cum fast to make him enjoy you should let him fast longer
    once you feel he is about to cum stop sucking

  • watch a lot of fellatio blowjob porns and learn it ;P
    and we can practice ;D

  • DT

    to dt, keep your tongue out of the way, it opens your throat more