Just a few "tips".
*Concentrate mouth play on the head (glans).
*Bob and suck it to just below the ridge (corona). The shaft won't feel it much.
*You can alternate to suckling it like an infant on a pacifier rather than bobbing.
*You can tease the glans by swirling your tongue around it and probing the little hole.
*Avoid scratching the head with your teeth. It can break his momentum.
*Stroke his penis with one hand while you suck. Do it with two fingers on the top and your thumb on the rounded "vein" on the underside. Stroking this way induces the prostate to engorge and ejaculate. Stroke rapidly with a moderate grip.
*Use your other hand to cup and kneed his sack.
*Always build sexual tension. Do not pause or slow down because he can lose his momentum and even kill the blowie altogether.
*When he begins to ejaculate, stop all mouth motion on the glans (it will distract him) while he ejaculates and just straight suck only.
*Also while he ejaculates, continue to stroke more slowly until he is finished. It will coax out the later squirts.
*Then Continue to straight suck with no mouth motion until he drains and unplugs.
Works for me.
Focus on the head, The ridge around the head. The area on the bottom side of the head, if he circumcised it should look like a v underneath there. Grab the shaft and stroke him up and down while you lick and suck the head
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What's Your Opinion? Sign Up Now!I like it when she starts out with a handjob and ten just focuses on the last 1-2" while stroking me. Great orgasms every time! Make sure the guy returns the favor every time... you deserve some great orgasms also!
Have you given some BJs or are you new to sex?
Head sucking and finger at the bottom of the shaft for massaging together always does it for me. You can try prostate massage which I'm not really into but guys that are ok with it will definitely cum since that's how human biology works.
I’ve done some prostate massaging before but I just don’t know if I’m actually massaging the right thing 😅
I know it’s somewhere between the bottom of the testicles and the anus
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Not all guys like thier balls fondled while doing it. Sometimes it can be sensitive if you hit a nerve or squeeze too hard. Stroking slowly with your mouth over the head. On the underside, at the base of the head is a sensitive spot. Work on that with the tip of your tongue. Suck some but not too much. I also like a little nibbling up the shaft, maybe he would too. Don't gag on it, but take in as much as you can once in a while.
I always suck the balls and put them in my mouth. How do I know if that’s not his thing?
I like it sometimes. There have been times where it was painful when she did cause they were sensitive. Kind of like "blue balls" and then she touches them or puts them in her mouth. It depends on the guy.
I don't know. I’m not a crazy about head guy, but I like the visual part of it. Just seeing it go in and out of her mouth is super hot!
So I should give him head when the lights are on then so he can see it going in and out my mouth?
I’d like that. Or low lighting. I hate it too bright but like enough light to see. But yeah, that’s hot as hell to me.
A few things
- make him hard with your mouth first, just get it in your mouth and play with it with your tongue, when it starts getting a partial, start the in and out motion.
- if you can deepthroat him, when he has a partial it’s easier
- suck it like it’s the tastiest thing you’ve ever put in your mouth
- use your hands to stroke at the same time
- play with his balls
I know a lot of guys aren’t comfortable with girls seeing their penis when it’s soft so how do I go about getting him hard with my mouth? Also, he seems to always get hard when he’s just around me, even if we aren’t doing anything lol
Hahaha ok, maybe for second round? He doesn’t want him to see him soft? Really? I don’t mind, actually I love when they play with it when soft.
I’ve played with it when he was soft but it’s always undeR the sheets
don't forget the balls
Make lots of eye contact.
Give some tongue love to the balls.
And watch lots of BJ porn for other ideas and tips.
I always give the balls attention even if it’s just massaging them gently while I suck on his tip or putting all of them in my mouth. I just struggle with making eye contact
Nice. Does the lack of eye contact have something to do with your self confidence?
Eye contact makes me uncomfortable
Everyone forgets the ice, it's great
Does every guy like this?
I don't know, I was shown it by an ex and loved it and she said she'd never had any complaints and I can understand why
Gently lick the area just under the tip of his dick, while stroking the rest of the shaft. Massage the area with your tongue, and right when he's about to cum, ball your hand into a fist and drive it as hard as you can into his testicles.
Should I stroke the shaft with some lube?
Dont use teeth, suck it slowly and then more and more intense also grab balls, really easy
Does grabbing the balls help with making him cum?
yes a lot, balls are arrousing and represent a lot of pleasure
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