How to Give Your Woman a Mind Blowing Experience in the Bedroom

Introduction

They say men are like microwaves and women are like ovens. Men don't need nearly as much to get aroused as women do, while women need to warm up first. This guide is mostly centered around this principle and how to warm her up so she keeps coming back for more.

Start her off before you even see her!

This step is important because it sets the tone for the rest of the day. Send her a sexy message like "Good morning beautiful, I hope you don't have any plans tonight because I'm going to make you my little slut with what I have planned for tonight ;)" You can say many things, break down her barriers so she can open up as much as possible. Say you are DYING to taste her tonight and touch her smooth skin. Say that her results at the gym are paying off and that you can't resist her. Women love the mind games much more than men. Another important note, be tasteful and flattering. Don't give too much or she will probably think its pathetic.

Create a romantic environment

Women want an experience that fills all the senses. Buy her favorite scented candles, prepare a nice bath for her with her favorite bath bomb, and buy her favorite type of flowers. Not only will she appreciate that you understand her favorite things, it gets her hormones going that a man knows what she wants and he can provide it. Even cook her something she loves if you're a great chef.

How to give your woman a mind blowing experience in the bedroom

Don't be too eager to get to the point

I think this is the worst mistake men make when pleasing a woman. They want to suck her nipples for 3 minutes than stick it in her vagina to go to town. Start slow, know her "hot spots" some common areas I look for are her neck, nibble on her earlobes, lips, rub the inside of her legs slowly and sensually. Whisper in her ear that you've waited all day for this and she's the most beautiful girl in the world. This will drop her defenses and she will totally open up sexually to you. Once she has that look in her eye and she starts getting passionate it's important to master oral sex. Don't just attack the clit or you'll ruin the momentum you've built up. Start by kissing the inside of her legs, move your way towards the vagina but tease her. You're in control at this point, she should be begging you for more. Another region that I've discovered is the area between her legs and vagina, kiss it, bite it gently, and she will get so excited. Spend time showing her you actually enjoy it. Work inside out, start with the outer lips and suck with a firm yet not too strong force. Use your hands and notice what they like, rub her legs or her hips. Keep trying different things until you find out what she loves. Don't change technique too often because women take a long time to get going.

How to Give Your Woman a Mind Blowing Experience in the Bedroom

The main show

Now that she is in the mood, it's time for penetration. If you did the foreplay correctly she will be totally wet and ready for sex. Show your dominant side during this time, show your masculine strength. Grab her hair, slap her ass, hold down her arms, use your hips and your body to create a constant rhythm. Don't be harsh, but don't be too nice is the moral of the story here.

Conclusion

Understand the key points:

1. Women need a build up in order for them to be the most horny

2. Women desire a man that understands their desires and their bodies

3. Use your masculine nature

No two women are alike. This guide isn't designed to work for every woman but more of a template that you can manipulate in order to give your girl the best experience in bed. If she is happy in bed she will be doing things you never imagined she would do before.

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  • Wow!
    If a man followed the points then woman handover herself to him.

  • No verbal contract to initiate sex?

    That's called rape my friend.

  • great take! I'd make sure she get that mind blowing experience as you had described lol

  • Definitely labor intensive...

  • Tbh great take but the real question where are they all I see is a bunch of feminist and bitter women that prefer assholes over kind hearted guys...

  • sounds like a lot of work

  • I feel some stuff like icecubes strawberries feathers during foreplay would make a girl damn wet.. Aren't they?

  • I am glad I am not a man. It takes lots of efforts to please a woman. Lol. so boring

    • I actually really enjoy putting in the effort though. If she's responsive and engaging, then I don't have to be getting off to be enjoying myself. I love making my girl feel good. The more effort it takes, the more fun it is.

    • @MikeAndMolly Nice! More should feel the same.

  • I typically slap my girl across the face with my dick until she starts bleeding and moaning.

    • Lol really sounds like fun lol

  • all about foreplay

    • Yes and a good nipple bite not hard just rite while masturbating 😂

  • this article was written by a Ver Gene.

    • Why I Built Walls In My Life ↗

      As per my knowledge @GirlsAskGuys permit.
      @xHoneyxBeex might be able to answer your questions in better manner.

  • Great Take 👍

    • Thank you

  • Nice Take

    • Thank you